We are truly touched by your request and want to lift you up in prayer and biblical encouragement. First, we want to remind you that God loves you deeply and has a unique plan for your life. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Regarding your feelings of not being loved, we pray that you will understand the depth of God's love for you.
1 John 4:9-10 says, "By this was God’s love revealed in us, that God has sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins."
Concerning your desire for a life partner, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this area. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, so we pray for God's leading in finding a godly spouse.
A couple verses to consider:
1 Corinthians 7:39 A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she wants to, only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:9 But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn.
We also want to address that the relationship should be one of courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. We would like to remind you to abstain from sexual relations outside of marriage as the Bible states:
Galatians 5:19-21 Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
Also, marriage is between one man and one woman as stated in Ephesians 5:31:
For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.
Finally, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and it is the only name by which we can be saved.
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ. We pray that You will restore her destiny and guide her in Your will for her life. We ask that You heal her heart and help her to feel Your love profoundly. We pray for Your leading in finding a godly spouse, a marriage that honors You, Lord. Help her to seek You first and trust in Your timing. We also pray that You will help her guide her son in the ways of the Lord. We ask all these things in Jesus' mighty name we pray.
Psalm 138:8 Yahweh will perfect that which concerns me. Your loving kindness, Yahweh, endures forever. Don’t forsake the works of your own hands.
Amen.