We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, and we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance. Remember, God's desire is for marriages to be strong and lifelong, as reflected in Mark 10:9, "What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder." We will pray for God's will in your marriage.
Firstly, it's essential to acknowledge that God hates divorce, as stated in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel." Therefore, we must do everything possible to save your marriage. This includes seeking God's face, surrendering your marriage to Him, and asking for His guidance. We will pray for God's will in your marriage.
Regarding the financial issues, it's important to remember what the Bible says in Romans 13:8, Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. It is essential to handle finances honestly, responsibly, and in agreement with your spouse.
However, it is also important to discuss the issue that your spouse is mad at you. But what does the Bible say? Ephesians 4:26-27: "'Be angry, and don't sin.' Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." This means you should address the anger quickly and not allow the devil to use this situation to divide your marriage.
In this situation, it's crucial to remain humble, loving, and patient, as described in Colossians 3:12-14, "Put on therefore, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."
We will pray for your marriage and your spouse, asking God to intervene and bring healing, understanding, and restoration. Let us pray.
Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this marriage and spouse to You. We pray for healing, understanding, and restoration in their relationship. Help them to communicate effectively, address their financial issues with wisdom and unity, and overcome any anger or bitterness.
We rebuke any influence of the devil in this marriage and claim the promises of God to be true for this marriage. In doing so, we know that no weapon formed against them shall prosper.
Lord, soften their hearts and draw them closer to You and to each other. Remind them of the vows they made before You and help them to honor and cherish one another.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage both you and your spouse to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor, to help you work through these challenges. Trust in God, and He will make a way. We will pray for God's will in your marriage and look forward to your reply about the outcome of this situation.