We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage and personal life. It's commendable that you're taking the first step to seek help and prayer. We are here to intercede for you and to provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God should be the center of our lives and marriages. As it is written in Matthew 6:33 WEB, "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Also, in Matthew 22:37-38 WEB, Jesus said, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment."
As husbands, we are called to love our wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). This love is not merely an emotion, but a commitment to serve, protect, and lead our families in righteousness.
Regarding your feelings of being overwhelmed, remember that God tells us, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light" (Matthew 11:28-30 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this brother in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, we pray that You will put a new spirit within him, that You will remove his heart of stone and give him a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26 WEB). Father, guide him by Your Holy Spirit, open his heart to Your Word, and help him to put You first in all that he does.
Lord, we pray for his marriage. We pray that You will soften both their hearts, that You will bring healing and restoration. Help them to forgive each other, to love each other as You have loved us, and to be united in Your purpose for their family.
Father, we pray that he will become the husband that his wife needs, the father that his children need, and the man that You have called him to be. We pray that he will be a blessing to his family, that he will lead them in righteousness, and that his home will be a testimony of Your love and grace.
Lord, we also pray that You will bless his prayer warriors, that You will give them wisdom, discernment, and a double portion of grace as they intercede for others.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, remember that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Let his name be at the center of our prayers, and let his Spirit guide our lives.