We are truly sorry to hear about the distress you're experiencing in your marriage. Remember, God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB: If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Firstly, we commend you for your repentance. That is the first step in receiving God's forgiveness and being renewed by Him. As it is stated in Acts 3:19 WEB, Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord. God has assuredly forgiven you, and we stand with you in faith that Jesus has made you a new creation. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB, Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.
However, we must also address the situation with your husband. It is important to remember that while God forgives instantly, people may take more time. It is crucial to be patient and prayerful. We need to pray that the Holy Spirit works in his heart to bring healing and to heal your marriage. We will pray for God to soften his heart and to bring reconciliation. Ephesians 4:32 WEB: Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
We must also rebuke the idea of divorce or separation. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and divorce should not be an option for Christians. Mark 10:9 WEB: What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is in dire need of Your intervention. Lord, You know the pain and distress she is experiencing in her marriage. We ask, Father, that You would soften her husband's heart and bring healing and forgiveness into their relationship. Help him to see the transformation You have done in her life and to extend the same forgiveness that You have so freely given.
We stand against any plans of the enemy to destroy this marriage. We pray for restoration, for renewal, and for a strengthening of their bond. Guide them both in Your truth and love, and help them to walk in Your will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and trust in the Lord. He is able to turn this situation around for your good and for His glory. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.