We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical encouragement. Firstly, we commend you for your persistent prayers and your desire to align your heart with God's will.
Let's remember God's promise: Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
However, we want to remind you that as believers, we are to be set apart, holy, and not conformed to the world and its relationships Romans 12:2 WEB. We are concerned that you are still yearning for your ex-girlfriend. It is important to examine this desire in light of God's Word.
If you are a believer and you desire marriage, it is important to seek a spouse who is also a believer and committed to living according to God's Word. You mentioned courtship but are still referring to her as your ex-girlfriend. The Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. If she is not living according to God's Word, then you should consider if this desire is from God or not.
Moreover, we are called to flee from sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB. If there was any sexual intimacy in your past relationship, it's crucial to repent, seek God's forgiveness, and move forward in purity.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is hurting and seeking your will for his life. Lord, we ask that you heal his heart, help remove this yearning if it is not in your will for his life, and guide him to the spouse you have prepared for him if it is your will your will for him to be married. Help him to trust in you completely, and give him the strength to move forward in your purpose for his life.
Father God, we also pray that you work in the heart of his ex-girlfriend. If she does not know you, we pray that you reveal yourself to her and draw her to you. If it is your will, bring reconciliation, but only if it aligns with your Word and their ultimate good and your glory.
Help him to see relationships through a godly perspective and live according to your Word. Strengthen him to be a man who is focused on You and his relationship with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep holding on to God's promises. Consider Psalm 147:3 WEB: He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.