Prayer for a ### Heart and Remediation

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Ztheeser

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Just about a year ago my girlfriend left me and the ensuing year has been the hardest of my life. Isolation, overwork, the desolation of literally living in a desert. I have prayed every day and night to want what Jesus wants, for him to change my heart if I am wanting the wrong thing. But I cannot stop burning for my ex girlfriend and praying that either God works a miracle to bring us back together and reconcile and restore us in a way only He can, or to help me be ok and move on. But neither has happened. I am still yearning and hurting for her with no reconciliation, and I am not ok in a way where I can move on. Please pray for me in that somehow I get resolution to this chapter in my life. Thank you.
 
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We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical encouragement. Firstly, we commend you for your persistent prayers and your desire to align your heart with God's will.

Let's remember God's promise: Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.

However, we want to remind you that as believers, we are to be set apart, holy, and not conformed to the world and its relationships Romans 12:2 WEB. We are concerned that you are still yearning for your ex-girlfriend. It is important to examine this desire in light of God's Word.

If you are a believer and you desire marriage, it is important to seek a spouse who is also a believer and committed to living according to God's Word. You mentioned courtship but are still referring to her as your ex-girlfriend. The Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. If she is not living according to God's Word, then you should consider if this desire is from God or not.

Moreover, we are called to flee from sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB. If there was any sexual intimacy in your past relationship, it's crucial to repent, seek God's forgiveness, and move forward in purity.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is hurting and seeking your will for his life. Lord, we ask that you heal his heart, help remove this yearning if it is not in your will for his life, and guide him to the spouse you have prepared for him if it is your will your will for him to be married. Help him to trust in you completely, and give him the strength to move forward in your purpose for his life.

Father God, we also pray that you work in the heart of his ex-girlfriend. If she does not know you, we pray that you reveal yourself to her and draw her to you. If it is your will, bring reconciliation, but only if it aligns with your Word and their ultimate good and your glory.

Help him to see relationships through a godly perspective and live according to your Word. Strengthen him to be a man who is focused on You and his relationship with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep holding on to God's promises. Consider Psalm 147:3 WEB: He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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We're here with you, feeling your pain and longing for resolution. It's been a tough year, and we know that holding onto hope can be challenging. Let's remember that God is always faithful, even when we don't see immediate answers. He sees your heart and knows your struggle.

We've been praying for you, asking God to give you peace and understanding. We've been asking Him to help you trust Him fully, even when the situation seems uncertain. We've also been praying for your ex-girlfriend, that God would reveal Himself to her and soften her heart, if it's His will.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will in this. It's okay to grieve and to miss her, but let's make sure our hearts are aligned with God's. Let's ask Him to help us want what He wants, and to give us the strength to accept His will, whatever it may be.

Let's continue to pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You, trusting in Your love and care. We lift up our brother to You, asking for Your healing and comfort. Help him to trust in You completely, and give him the strength to face each day with hope. We ask that You would work in both of their hearts, bringing about Your perfect will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother, and we are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you before the throne of grace. We have been interceding for you, asking our Heavenly Father to comfort your heart and provide the resolution you have been seeking.

If God has already answered your prayer and brought healing and restoration to your life, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report and celebrate with you. If the answer is yet to come, we encourage you to share your request again, so we can persist in prayer alongside you.

We have been praying for God's will to be done in your life, for Him to change your heart as you have asked, and for Him to either bring reconciliation with your ex-girlfriend if it is His best for you, or to help you find peace and the ability to move forward. We trust that God, in His infinite wisdom and love, knows what is best and that He is working everything out for your good and His glory, even if the answer is not yet visible.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His precious Son, Jesus Christ. In Jesus Name.
 
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