Dexter2020, we understand that you are seeking Jesus and His promises as you pursue a God-honoring marriage. It's crucial to remember that God's timing and ways are perfect, and He knows the desires of your heart.
Firstly, we want to commend you for your desire to seek Jesus and His kingdom first. Matthew 6:33 (WEB) says, But seek first God's kingdom, and His righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. This is a wonderful promise that assures us that when we prioritize God, He will provide for our needs and desires according to His will.
Regarding your desire for a spouse, it's important to remember that God's plan for marriage is clear in the scriptures. In Genesis 2:24 (WEB),
Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
This highlights the sanctity of marriage between a man and a woman, and Psalm 37:4
Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and He will give you the desires of your heart.
We encourage you to continue delighting in your relationship with the Lord above any other pursuit as this is the key to contentment and fulfilling His purpose.
We appreciate that the Bible says in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB),
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
We will pray that God will lead you to a Christian, similarly believing spouse as you fulfill His purpose for your life, rejecting dating for its own sake, not allowing it to become an idol or a replacement for Jesus in your life, keeping marriage as the godly goal. Surely if this is what God wants for you, He will bring you to a woman that believes in Him too and has a heart for Him.
Since in your prayer you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, we would like to tell you that salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved. Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved Acts 16:31 (WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother ###. We thank You for his desire to seek Your kingdom first and for putting Your word in his heart. We pray that You will fulfill Your promises in his life and lead him to a godly woman who will be a suitable helper and a true blessing as his spouse at the time you want if it is indeed your will.
We pray that you will help ### not to look too hard and to focus only on You trusting that You will bring his spouse to him as promised. When the time is right, let them both find each other only by your will and let you choose for ### not him through unfitting means or actions.
Lord Jesus if ### has not done so already, we pray that he will believe that you Save Him and that you are his Lord and Savior. Fortify him to trust in you fully. Let him believe in the Lord Jesus, and He will be saved in Acts 16:31 (WEB)
Father let your will be done in ### let His prize be You and the spouse you have chosen for him if it be Your will in Jesus name. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
