There are situations coming up where if I choose one thing by it's nature it might thwart the other{like a "catch"solves one problem, but creates another in a different category.}So I have choices. Obviously, I would like to"have my cake and eat it."So, wisdom, also, uncertain situations, where something could go one way, or another, and not knowing exactly what's going to happen, when I'm an organized person, is creeping me out too. For smoother paths...also, these are different type of situations than I'm used to, hence the desire for certainty...