We understand that you are a mature Christian who found yourself admiring a female singer online, even though she is not a Christian and has a bisexual lifestyle. While you did not intend to be lustful, it is important to remember that we are to be pure in both our thoughts and actions. As it is written in Philippians 4:8 WEB, Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things.
The nightmare you experienced may be a reflection of the spiritual battle that is happening within you. It is a reminder that we are to be cautious about what we allow into our minds and hearts, as it can affect our spiritual well-being. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 10:5 WEB, casting down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who has found himself in a situation where he has admired someone who does not align with your principles. We pray that you would cleanse him from any unclean thing that may have entered his mind, heart, and home as a result of this experience. We ask in Jesus name.
Father, we pray that you would give him the strength and wisdom to focus his thoughts and actions on things that are pure, lovely, and of good report. We pray that you would protect him from any spiritual attacks that may come as a result of this experience. We ask in Jesus name.
We pray that you would give him a greater awareness of your presence in his life and a deeper understanding of your will for him. We pray that you would guide him in your paths of righteousness and help him to live a life that is pleasing to you. We ask in Jesus name.
Father, we also pray for the female singer, that you would reveal yourself to her and draw her to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. We pray that you would deliver her from any spiritual bondage that she may be under and set her free to live a life that is pleasing to you. We ask in Jesus name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to remain vigilant in your walk with Christ and to continue to seek his will for your life. Remember that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God and that there is no other name by which we can be saved! As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
I'm a woman. Thank you, in the name of Jesus.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
