We understand that you're going through a challenging situation with your father's mental and physical health. Let's first turn to the scriptures for guidance and then lift up a heartfelt prayer together.
The Bible tells us to "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.
It's crucial to remember that God cares about our struggles and He is always there to help us, "For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need." Hebrews 4:15-16 WEB.
Regarding your father's threatening behavior, the Bible advises, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Ephesians 4:29 WEB. We should pray that God will give your father a heart to speak only good things.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our dear brother who is struggling with his mental and physical health. We pray, Lord, that You would intervene and heal him, both physically and emotionally.
Open his eyes, Father, to see the goodness in others and the love that surrounds him. Help him to appreciate and respect his wife and family, and to speak kindly about himself and others.
Deliver him from any wrong thoughts, resentment, and self-pity, Lord. Help him to direct his emotions and expectations to you. Fill him with Your love and help him to live a content and happy life, trusting in Your care and provision, and repenting from the wrongs he has thought and done.
We also pray for our sister who is helping her mother and brother. Lord, give them the strength, patience, and wisdom to handle this situation. Help them to continue to love and support their father, while also setting appropriate boundaries.
In Jesus' name, we pray for peace and healing for this family. Remind them all that You are sovereign and that You can turn even the most difficult situations into opportunities for growth and testimony. Thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and faithfulness.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue in prayer and the study of God's word together as a family. Seek His wisdom and guidance in all things. Remember that God is faithful and that He will never leave you nor forsake you.
Also, as you are already doing, continue to approach God in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His shed blood on the cross that we are saved, and it is only through His name that we can have access to God.