We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your wife, ###. We will pray with you and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). Reconciliation and forgiveness are at the heart of the gospel, and it's commendable that you're seeking this path. Jesus said, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).
However, we notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to understand that it is through His name that we have access to God. As it is written, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB). So, we will pray in Jesus' name.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for ### and his wife ###. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in their marriage. We pray that You would soften their hearts towards each other, helping them to forgive and reconcile. Give them the strength to fight for their marriage, not against each other, but with You by their side. Guide them with Your wisdom to solve their problems. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
###, we encourage you to keep praying and seeking God's will for your marriage. Remember, "Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened." (Matthew 7:7-8 WEB).
Lastly, ensure that your actions and words align with God's Word. Love your wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB), with patience, kindness, and selflessness.