Pray for my marriage plz of 22 years. Praying through Jesus to open husbands heart to work on Marriage with healing and love. I pray we can work things out.
I can personally say that when we look at what is wrong and hope Jesus opens husband's heart, we won't be seeing much result.
We need to speak what the Lord shows us about our husband.
"Father, thank you that my husband is gracious, full of compassion, slow to anger and of great mercy and he is good to me."
So I think a lot of problems deal with, well my husband is not nice to me. He yells at me. He is this and he is that. Yeah, but God said to love. So I encourage you to speak what you want to see, and what you will find out, you are the one who has to change first. That's just how it works. We can't be speaking 'oh God my husband has a hard heart..." cause what we see in our own perception, is not what God sees. God redeemed mankind, so we speak, Lord, I thank you that my husband is good to me and shows me favor. Or however you want to word it, you are going to have to see the "end" result, the "it is finished" result of a marriage where you two are in unity and the love of God is there. Pray over your bed, declare that your marriage is blessed, that unity is there, that Lord, thank you that my husband has a sound mind, a right mind, the mind of Christ. Speak life. That's what I did and I see wonderful changes. How long did it take? However long it took me to change first. It's called dying to self and allowing the Spirit of God to work.
Father, I thank you for loving this couple and i speak life over their marriage, blessings of unity and oneness, love, grace, mercy, goodness.. In Jesus name. Amen.