We understand that you're seeking discernment regarding a potential relationship, and we want to guide you according to biblical principles. First, let's address the fear you're experiencing. As you've noted, fear is not from the Lord. In 2 Timothy 1:7 WEB, it says, "For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."
However, we want to encourage you to consider a few things. As believers, our primary goal in any relationship should be to glorify God and grow in our walk with Christ. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
It's crucial to ensure that the person you're considering for a relationship is a fellow believer in Christ. This is not just about having shared interests or feelings of affection, but about being equally yoked in faith and commitment to the Lord.
Moreover, it's important to approach this situation with wisdom and patience. In James 1:5 WEB, it says, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the God who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking your will and wisdom for Paroxyromai. Lord, guide them with your discernment, and replace any fear with your perfect love. Help them towait patiently on you and trust in your timing. If this relationship is not your will, give them the strength to walk away. If it is, guide them in your truth and prepare them for a Christ-honoring marriage. We ask all of this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It's only through His name that we have access to the Father and it is only through His death, burial and resurrection that we are saved from sin and its eternal punishment.