We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and rejection you have experienced, and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Firstly, we must address that the power of the tongue is real, and the words spoken by your father have had a profound impact on your life. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 18:21 WEB, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and those who love it will eat its fruit." But we also know that no curse or word spoken against us can prosper when we are in Christ Jesus.
Let us break this curse of unlovability and rejection in the name of Jesus Christ.
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has been bound by words of rejection and unlovability. We stand against these words and break their power in Jesus' name. We proclaim that she is loved, she is cherished, and she is a daughter of the Most High King. We speak life, acceptance, and love over her. Father, we ask You to heal her broken heart and bind up her wounds, as it is written in Psalm 147:3 WEB, 'He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds.'"
We also want to encourage you to forgive your father, just as Jesus taught us to pray in Matthew 6:12 WEB, "Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors." Forgiveness does not mean what he did was acceptable, it means releasing the bitterness and pain to God, and trusting Him to bring justice and healing.
Now concerning relationships, we encourage you to trust God for a godly spouse, and not just a boyfriend. The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" Therefore, trust God to bring a godly man into your life, and commit to purity before and within marriage.
Remember, you are a child of God, and your value is not determined by your relationship status. It is written in Psalm 139:14 WEB, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, my soul knows that very well."
Lastly, we want to ensure you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, and it is by His blood that we are saved. If you have not already, please confess Jesus as your Lord and Savior, and trust in His finished work on the cross for your salvation.
Let us pray together:
"Father, we thank You for loving us and sending Your Son to die for our sins. We ask You to heal our sister's heart, break every curse and chain of rejection, and give her a new song in her heart. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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