We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles your son is facing, and we are here to pray and provide counsel based on biblical principles.
Firstly, it is important to remember that our help comes from the Lord. As it says in Psalm 121:1-2 WEB, "I will lift up my eyes to the hills. Where does my help come from? My help comes from Yahweh, who made heaven and earth." Therefore, we can trust in God to help your son through this difficult time.
We must also address the issue of your son's priorities. It is concerning that he is valuing his friends more than his studies and family. As Christians, we are called to honor our parents and to be diligent in our work. In Colossians 3:23 WEB, it says, "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men." We should encourage your son to realign his priorities, putting God first, followed by his family and studies. Proverbs 1:8 WEB reminds us, "Hear, my son, your father’s instruction, and don’t reject your mother’s teaching."
Regarding his feelings of unhappiness and stress, we can find comfort in the words of 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." Encourage your son to pray and cast his burdens on Jesus, who alone can provide true peace and happiness.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our ###'s son to You. Lord, You know the burdens he is carrying, the stress he is feeling, and the unhappiness that plagues him. We ask, in the name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, that You would comfort him, guide him, and help him to overcome these feelings. Give him the strength to prioritize his life according to Your will, and to find good, godly friendships that draw him closer to You.
In Jesus' name, we pray that You would remind our brother that You are always with him, loving him, and caring for him. Help him to find his joy and peace in You alone. Turn his heart back to You, to his family, and to his studies.
Thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and faithfulness. We trust in You and Your promises.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying for your son and to trust in God's timing and wisdom.