We are truly saddened to hear about the struggle your husband is facing, but we are encouraged that you have reached out for prayer and support. Let's begin by praying together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this beloved sister in Christ and her husband. Lord, we know that You have called us to be holy and pure, and that Your desire is for us to live lives that glorify You.
Father, we ask that You would intervene in this situation and break the chains of pornography addiction that have a hold on this man. Shield his eyes, Lord, and guard his heart. Give him the strength to resist temptation and the courage to seek help and accountability. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may live a life of honesty, purity, and integrity, all for Your glory.
We pray also for this sister, that You would give her the strength and wisdom to support her husband through this trial. Help her to be a source of love, encouragement, and accountability, and give her the discernment to know how to best help her husband.
We pray and believe according to Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."
And Lord Jesus, it is in Your precious name we pray and believe. We know that it is only by Your name that we can come to the Father and ask these things. We ask for the salvation of this man and woman through faith in Jesus Christ, and that they believe in Jesus Christ as the only begotten Son of God and the only way to Eternal Life. That they repent of their sins and ask Jesus Christ to take control of their lives. We ask for the regenerating power of the Holy Spirit in both their lives to make them into the image of Jesus Christ. As you said in John 14:6 and Acts 4:12.
In Jesus name,
Amen.
We want to also remind that sin always has consequences. God disciplines those he loves. Hebrews 12:6,11 For the Lord disciplines him whom he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives. All discipline seems for the moment to be painful rather than pleasant; later, however, it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
Sister, it is important that you and your husband both seek God's will in this matter and that you both commit to praying together, studying God's Word, and seeking godly counsel. It is also important to remember that God has called us to flee from sexual immorality, and that includes pornography. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
We encourage your husband to seek accountability with other godly men, and for you to do the same with other godly women. James 5:16 tells us, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."
Lastly, we want to remind you that God is faithful and that He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."
A final warning to use this as an opportunity to look at your own relationship with Jesus Christ. Do not be so focused on the bad that you cannot see the good. You also need to be in prayer and relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the only one who can heal your heart and soul.
We are praying for you and your husband, and we believe that God is able to bring healing and restoration to your marriage. Keep trusting in Him and keep seeking His will. Jesus is the answer to sin. He paid for the sin of pornography for your husband and Jesus also died for your sins.