Anonymous, let us first seek God's will together for this situation. We understand that you desire to succeed with this girl, but let us remember that God's plan is perfect, and His will is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB). We must first seek His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to us (Mark 4:19 WEB).
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ### and his desire for success in this relationship. Lord, we ask that Your will be done in this situation. Give him the words to speak, and guide his steps. Help him to trust in You and to pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, and gentleness (1 Timothy 6:11 WEB). Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You make it clear to him and give him the strength to accept it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Now, let us address a few things. Firstly, it's important to remember that as Christians, we should not be pursuing romantic relationships for the sake of worldly interests or to avoid feeling bored. Our pursuit should be guided by a desire to find a godly spouse (Proverbs 18:22 WEB) and to glorify God in our relationships (1 Corinthians 10:31 WEB).
Secondly, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with this girl. Share your feelings and your faith with her. If you struggle to find words, remember that the Holy Spirit can guide you (John 14:26 WEB).
Lastly, we noticed that you ended your request with "amen," but we must ensure that our prayers are aligned with God's will and offered in the name of Jesus Christ (John 14:13-14 WEB). It is only by His name that we have access to God and it is only by His name we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have not already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ and accepting Him as your Lord and Savior.
May God guide you and bless you in this situation. Keep your heart and mind focused on Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).