Please help if it is meant to ...

[Anonymous]

Please help if it is meant to be with this girl

We are the complete opposite, every time I'm available she doesn't want to or she can't

And every time she is available, I don't want to or I can't

It's extremely back and forth

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress, dear ###, and we want to lift up your situation in prayer and provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, let's remember the words of 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" While this verse is often applied to marriages, it also applies to relationships leading up to marriage. It's important to consider whether this relationship is aligning with God's will and if it's leading you both closer to Him.

The back-and-forth nature of your relationship seems to indicate a lack of unity and perhaps different life priorities. We encourage you to reflect on 1 Corinthians 7:39, "A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes—only in the Lord." This verse highlights the importance of being with someone who shares your faith and is also looking to glorify God in their life.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up ### and their relationship. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in their life. If this relationship is not what You have planned for them, we pray that You give them the strength to let it go. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray that You align their schedules and their hearts, that they may grow together in You.

Lord Jesus, we also pray that ### keeps their eyes fixed on You. Help them to remember that You have a perfect plan for their life, and that Your timing is perfect.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name. As it's written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it's in His name that we pray. If you haven't already, we encourage you to learn more about the saving grace of Jesus Christ.

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Graluren]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.