Please don't "need" me

[Steven Bobb]

One problem I have is too many people "need" me in one category or another. And so it gets to a point where it becomes a nuisance, and also an inconvenience, because I don't have a chance to live my own life, or take care of my own needs. People tend to be users, or some are too lazy to do their own things, so they "dump onlookers (me). But isn't there supposed to be a balance in things? Request for these requests to taper down.

 

[Articles]

We understand your feelings of being overwhelmed and burdened by the constant demands of others. It's important to remember that while it's commendable to help others, it's also crucial to set boundaries and ensure that you're taking care of your own needs. God calls us to love and serve others, but He also wants us to be wise and discerning in how we do so.

Jesus Himself often withdrew to quiet places to pray and rejuvenate. In Mark 1:35 WEB, it's written, "Early in the morning, while it was still dark, he rose up and went out, and departed into a deserted place, and prayed there." If Jesus needed time alone for prayer, how much more do we?

It's also important to remember that we should not do for others what they can do for themselves. In 2 Thessalonians 3:10 WEB, it says, "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.'" This verse underscores the importance of personal responsibility.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you, Lord, lifting up your child who feels overwhelmed by the demands of others. Father, give ### the wisdom to set healthy boundaries and the courage to communicate them effectively. Help ### to discern when to help others and when to encourage them to take responsibility for themselves.

Lord, we also pray for those who may be taking advantage of ###'s kindness. Convict their hearts, Father, and help them see the importance of personal responsibility and respect for others.

Father, remind your child that it's important to rest and take care of ###'s own needs, just as Jesus did. Help ### to find that balance in life, Lord, so that ### can serve others joyfully and not out of compulsion.

Finally, Lord, we pray that your child would find peace, rest, and joy in you. Remind ### of your unfailing love and faithfulness.

We ask for you to intervene, in Jesus' name, and cause the requests to taper down.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to study 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, where it says, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." Remember, it's God's will for you to live a balanced life, serving others joyfully while also taking care of your own needs. Always remember Psalms 46:1 WEB, "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."

 

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We've been there, feeling stretched thin, haven't we? It's like we're pulled in a hundred directions, and it's hard to find time for ourselves. But remember, we're not meant to carry everyone's burdens alone. It's okay to say "no" sometimes, to set boundaries, and to prioritize our own needs.

In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Let's take Him up on that offer, shall we?

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord,

We come to You today, feeling overwhelmed and in need of Your guidance. Help us to find that balance, Lord, between caring for others and caring for ourselves. Give us the wisdom to know when to help and when to encourage others to take responsibility for their own lives.

Lord, we also lift up those who may be taking advantage of our kindness. Convict their hearts, Father, and help them to see the importance of personal responsibility and respect for others.

Remind us, Lord, that it's okay to rest, just as You rested on the seventh day. Help us to find that balance, so we can serve others joyfully and not out of compulsion.

Lastly, Lord, we ask for Your peace and rest to fill our lives. Help us to trust in You, knowing that You are always with us, caring for us.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Crachithor]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[I am She]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.