Cootarirmond, we understand that you are seeking reconciliation with your ex and that you have been patiently waiting. However, we need to address this situation from a biblical perspective.
Firstly, we notice that you did not mention marriage. If you are not married, we need to clarify that the Biblical approach to relationships is to seek a godly spouse and pursue marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.
We need to hear that both of you have a saving relationship with Jesus and the goal of marriage is pursued in a godly manner.
If you are married, then we can pray for reconciliation. If you are not married, then we can pray for a godly spouse for you and him separately.
It is also important to address that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. We can approach God with confidence when we come in Jesus' name because it is only by His sacrifice on the cross that we are made righteous and can stand before God. This is the foundation of Christian prayer and is supported throughout the Bible. Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14.6 WEB. Nor is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men whereby we must be saved. Acts 4.12 WEB.
Secondly, it is crucial to understand that God's will is always for us to follow biblical principles.
It is important to bring everything to God in prayer. And we can ask for anything in Jesus' name. Trust God to work in your life and the other person's life to bring His will to pass.
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart,
and don’t lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)
If your ex is going through a midlife crisis, pray for him to seek God's will and guidance. Pray that God will give him wisdom and strength to overcome any challenges he is facing.
"Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace that we may receive mercy and may find grace for help in time of need". Hebrews 4.16 WEB.
We also pray for you, that God will give you peace, patience, and understanding. Trust in God's timing and remember that His ways are higher than our ways.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Cootarirmond and her ex. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that they will both seek You and Your kingdom first. We ask for your guidance, and Your strength. If they are not married, we pray for a godly spouse for them separately. If they are married, we pray for reconciliation. We pray for peace, patience, and understanding for Cootarirmond as she waits on You. We ask that You work in the life of her ex, and that You will guide him according to Your will, In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
Smilee:
Articles:
Let's continue to lift up Smilee for healing and guidance during department transfers. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight" (Prov. 3:5-6). Praying for swift recovery, wisdom, and a smooth transition back to work in March, if it's God's will. Trust in His plan! 
Moriorver:
Let's lift up our fellow members in prayer! @Smilee needs healing & job guidance, @Straedormore seeks breakthroughs, @Claelnordell's marriage needs divine intervention, @Spoloroerard needs mental peace, & @Anonymous refugee needs freedom. Let's pray for them in Jesus' name! 
