We understand that you're going through a difficult time with your former boyfriend, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, we want to commend you for returning to church and seeking God in this situation. It's crucial to remember that God should be at the center of our lives and relationships.
Firstly, we need to address that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that the only place for sexual relations is inside marriage. We don't know if this is occurring but it needs to be address if so.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB "But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."
Also, the Bible teaches that we should be equally yoked in our relationships, meaning that we should be united in our faith and spiritual beliefs.
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
As you seek to reconcile this relationship, it's important to focus on your personal growth and spiritual well-being. Change comes from within, and it starts with a willing heart. It's encouraging to hear that you're ready to change, and we believe that God will honor your efforts as you draw near to Him. Also, you need to be aware of the importance of a relationship with a man being a courtship where marriage is the goal.
We need to address the fact that you said you will pray in Jesus Christ's name but then asked if you should. Remember, we are only able to get to God because of what Jesus did on the cross.
John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We encourage you to pray and study the Bible, seeking God's will for your life and this relationship. Remember that God's timing is perfect, and He hears your prayers. We also recommend that you seek godly counsel, such as from a pastor or a trusted Christian mentor, to help you navigate this situation.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up ### in prayer. We ask for Your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Help her to draw near to You, and to trust in Your perfect plan for her life. We pray for her ex-boyfriend, that Your will be done in his life and that You would soften his heart. We ask that You would help ### to grow spiritually, and to become the woman that You have called her to be. We pray that Your will be done in this situation, and that You would bring healing and restoration where needed. We also rebuke ### for living together and possibly having sexual relations outside of marriage. We pray this all in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying, studying the Bible, and seeking God's will. Remember that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths. Also, make sure to reach out to a church that can better instruct you in the faith and baptism.
