People don't like me... Christians don't like me...

[Stegirmon]

Start serving God as part of an established team, like greeters or host team or tech team or worship team or hospitality team or anything you can do regularly that serves God in the name of Jesus. Be a giver, not just a receiver. Be active, not passive. As they say, "be a doer, not just a hearer", and "to make a friend, be a friend". Read, study, and ABSORB the letter in the Bible from James, especially chapter one (James 1), you'll get a lot out of it. Dig DEEP into the gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John) and do what Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-30
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Give up on needing or wanting human approval, live only to please God and to serve the Lord Jesus who died for us and saved us!

 

[Goghysk]

Start serving God as part of an established team, like greeters or host team or tech team or worship team or hospitality team or anything you can do regularly that serves God in the name of Jesus. Be a giver, not just a receiver. Be active, not passive. As they say, "be a doer, not just a hearer", and "to make a friend, be a friend". Read, study, and ABSORB the letter in the Bible from James, especially chapter one (James 1), you'll get a lot out of it. Dig DEEP into the gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John) and do what Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-30
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Give up on needing or wanting human approval, live only to please God and to serve the Lord Jesus who died for us and saved us!

Can't serve in Churches that don't care that you are even there.

 

[Loerwynn]

Can't serve in Churches that don't care that you are even there.

This is your season of isolation! Spend time with Him alone and dont trust people! Trust only Him! God bless you!

 

[Goghysk]

This is your season of isolation! Spend time with Him alone and dont trust people! Trust only Him! God bless you!

No offense, but I have been in this season of isolation for 22 years. I don't want to be in it anymore. It has been bad for my mental health.

 

[foxtom]

I know how you feel..no real friends at church..everyone goes there an hour then goes home..nobody really wants to fellowship which is what we're supposed to do as Christians. So tired of church but no real fellowship. I feel like starting a home church at my house for Bible study and fellowship rather than keep trying to find a church with real fellowship..so tired of it. If I want to listen to a sermon I can do that at home on my tv. There seems to be no fellowship for singles. We are just left in the dust it seems..praying you find true Christian friends and I do too .even my own family is not devout they don't really believe in healing miracles or prayer for breakthroughs..or the tithing. Wish I could be around devout believers that are passionate about God. Can't find them here in Utah. Praying God directs His believers to treat you better in Jesus name.

Thanks I have the same problem,

 

[Goghysk]

Thanks I have the same problem,

Dear Heavenly Father please help solve this issue that Prayerangel1967, foxtom, and I have in common. In Jesus name, amen.

 

[Anonymous]

It is kinda weird. You would logically think that if your a believer, and other people around you are also believers, that you would have a connection with them. They are brothers and sisters in the lord. But then somehow our personalities and other things about us can cause someone to not like you. Even if you are trying your best to be clean, and not hurtful. Just yesterday I was trying to have a quick conversation with a fellow believer at work. In years past this person was really nice to me. Won me over. This year, they kinda give me the cold shoulder. If I try talking to them, they run away. Usually they end up finding someone else and stop and talk to them! If make me feel weird. This is not the first time this has happened to me where I work. It has been on ongoing problem for many years. I try checking myself, I think about it. I should pray about it more, I suppose. But the end result is sadness. I know someone here that would say "take no thought of your life" I'm sorry but God gave me emotions. When people are hurtful to me, I feel it. Even if I act like I don't feel it, I feel it. I'm always trying to heal from past pains. One big one was many many years ago. I was trying to get a girlfriend. It just so happened that someone I was trying to help someone else witness too, kinda ended up with me for a short period of time. Things went really bad! So I had to break things off, even though I really really didn't want to. I went online to seek some comfort from a trusted Christian friend. Before I got to say much about what happened, they responded: "God told me not to talk to you anymore". Several years later, I ran into that person again on a different website. This time they asked me for forgiveness because they were depressed. I told them that I forgave them, and we tried to restart the friendship. But within a week that friendship shipwrecked again. I haven't seen or heard of this person since 2010! Probably for the best. Even though I forgave them, like I should, the old hurtful memories keep coming back. As for the girlfriend, I healed of that. 4 years after the breakup she wrote me an apology note, ask for forgiveness, and informed me that she had become a Christian. At least that ended on a peaceful note. I have another friend who won't email me. I don't know what is going on with them. I'm sure they would say they are busy. And that could very well be the case. But I can't stop thinking about them. I have prayed about them and for them a lot. I could go on with more sad stories of things that are bugging me emotionally. I think you get the point.

When I spend 1 hour in Gods presence
for example daily for a few weeks or months,
then God opens the doors to the right people for me, gives me real friends,
I just listen to piano/instrumental prophetic worship music for 1h daily and then miracles really start happening.
The key is to SPEND TIME WITH GOD DAILY, SO HE WILL OPEN DOORS FOR YOU TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE.
AND TO THE RIGHT PLACES.
Write on youtube -instrumental prophetic worship, start listening daily for 1h and see the results after 1 month.
Judge by yourself how it works for you.

 

[Valiremp]

It is kinda weird. You would logically think that if your a believer, and other people around you are also believers, that you would have a connection with them. They are brothers and sisters in the lord. But then somehow our personalities and other things about us can cause someone to not like you. Even if you are trying your best to be clean, and not hurtful. Just yesterday I was trying to have a quick conversation with a fellow believer at work. In years past this person was really nice to me. Won me over. This year, they kinda give me the cold shoulder. If I try talking to them, they run away. Usually they end up finding someone else and stop and talk to them! If make me feel weird. This is not the first time this has happened to me where I work. It has been on ongoing problem for many years. I try checking myself, I think about it. I should pray about it more, I suppose. But the end result is sadness. I know someone here that would say "take no thought of your life" I'm sorry but God gave me emotions. When people are hurtful to me, I feel it. Even if I act like I don't feel it, I feel it. I'm always trying to heal from past pains. One big one was many many years ago. I was trying to get a girlfriend. It just so happened that someone I was trying to help someone else witness too, kinda ended up with me for a short period of time. Things went really bad! So I had to break things off, even though I really really didn't want to. I went online to seek some comfort from a trusted Christian friend. Before I got to say much about what happened, they responded: "God told me not to talk to you anymore". Several years later, I ran into that person again on a different website. This time they asked me for forgiveness because they were depressed. I told them that I forgave them, and we tried to restart the friendship. But within a week that friendship shipwrecked again. I haven't seen or heard of this person since 2010! Probably for the best. Even though I forgave them, like I should, the old hurtful memories keep coming back. As for the girlfriend, I healed of that. 4 years after the breakup she wrote me an apology note, ask for forgiveness, and informed me that she had become a Christian. At least that ended on a peaceful note. I have another friend who won't email me. I don't know what is going on with them. I'm sure they would say they are busy. And that could very well be the case. But I can't stop thinking about them. I have prayed about them and for them a lot. I could go on with more sad stories of things that are bugging me emotionally. I think you get the point.

It is kinda weird. You would logically think that if your a believer, and other people around you are also believers, that you would have a connection with them. They are brothers and sisters in the lord. But then somehow our personalities and other things about us can cause someone to not like you. Even if you are trying your best to be clean, and not hurtful. Just yesterday I was trying to have a quick conversation with a fellow believer at work. In years past this person was really nice to me. Won me over. This year, they kinda give me the cold shoulder. If I try talking to them, they run away. Usually they end up finding someone else and stop and talk to them! If make me feel weird. This is not the first time this has happened to me where I work. It has been on ongoing problem for many years. I try checking myself, I think about it. I should pray about it more, I suppose. But the end result is sadness. I know someone here that would say "take no thought of your life" I'm sorry but God gave me emotions. When people are hurtful to me, I feel it. Even if I act like I don't feel it, I feel it. I'm always trying to heal from past pains. One big one was many many years ago. I was trying to get a girlfriend. It just so happened that someone I was trying to help someone else witness too, kinda ended up with me for a short period of time. Things went really bad! So I had to break things off, even though I really really didn't want to. I went online to seek some comfort from a trusted Christian friend. Before I got to say much about what happened, they responded: "God told me not to talk to you anymore". Several years later, I ran into that person again on a different website. This time they asked me for forgiveness because they were depressed. I told them that I forgave them, and we tried to restart the friendship. But within a week that friendship shipwrecked again. I haven't seen or heard of this person since 2010! Probably for the best. Even though I forgave them, like I should, the old hurtful memories keep coming back. As for the girlfriend, I healed of that. 4 years after the breakup she wrote me an apology note, ask for forgiveness, and informed me that she had become a Christian. At least that ended on a peaceful note. I have another friend who won't email me. I don't know what is going on with them. I'm sure they would say they are busy. And that could very well be the case. But I can't stop thinking about them. I have prayed about them and for them a lot. I could go on with more sad stories of things that are bugging me emotionally. I think you get the point.

 

[Anonymous]

It is kinda weird. You would logically think that if your a believer, and other people around you are also believers, that you would have a connection with them. They are brothers and sisters in the lord. But then somehow our personalities and other things about us can cause someone to not like you. Even if you are trying your best to be clean, and not hurtful. Just yesterday I was trying to have a quick conversation with a fellow believer at work. In years past this person was really nice to me. Won me over. This year, they kinda give me the cold shoulder. If I try talking to them, they run away. Usually they end up finding someone else and stop and talk to them! If make me feel weird. This is not the first time this has happened to me where I work. It has been on ongoing problem for many years. I try checking myself, I think about it. I should pray about it more, I suppose. But the end result is sadness. I know someone here that would say "take no thought of your life" I'm sorry but God gave me emotions. When people are hurtful to me, I feel it. Even if I act like I don't feel it, I feel it. I'm always trying to heal from past pains. One big one was many many years ago. I was trying to get a girlfriend. It just so happened that someone I was trying to help someone else witness too, kinda ended up with me for a short period of time. Things went really bad! So I had to break things off, even though I really really didn't want to. I went online to seek some comfort from a trusted Christian friend. Before I got to say much about what happened, they responded: "God told me not to talk to you anymore". Several years later, I ran into that person again on a different website. This time they asked me for forgiveness because they were depressed. I told them that I forgave them, and we tried to restart the friendship. But within a week that friendship shipwrecked again. I haven't seen or heard of this person since 2010! Probably for the best. Even though I forgave them, like I should, the old hurtful memories keep coming back. As for the girlfriend, I healed of that. 4 years after the breakup she wrote me an apology note, ask for forgiveness, and informed me that she had become a Christian. At least that ended on a peaceful note. I have another friend who won't email me. I don't know what is going on with them. I'm sure they would say they are busy. And that could very well be the case. But I can't stop thinking about them. I have prayed about them and for them a lot. I could go on with more sad stories of things that are bugging me emotionally. I think you get the point.

Peace my friend, I want you to be encouraged. I know it's sometimes hard when it comes to family, friends and love as a believer because not everyone believes and if they do they may be on a different level than you spiritually as we all grow in The Lord at different paces. You are absolutely doing the right thing by forgiving. And from what you wrote you seem like a very Beautiful soul that anyone would be blessed to know and have as a friend. I want to recommend a book to you, "Matters of The Soul: coming in from a cold world." This book serves as a guiding light. The author draws inspiration from biblical teachings and personal reflections. It explores the struggles of the human experience and emphasizing the power of faith and prayer in overcoming life's challenges. I honestly believe in my heart that this book will bring you comfort, healing, hope, strength and above all a closer walk with our Heavenly Father. I too have my faults and things I am working on within myself and this Book has truly helped me in amazing ways. I am not the same since I read it and I can feel myself growing spiritually in areas I really needed help with. Just reading what you wrote and the sincerity of it is so precious. Stay encouraged my friend, continue to seek Our Heavenly Father in all things and take a look at that book, "Matters of The Soul: coming in from a cold world," it can change your life, it has changed mine. Peace my friend. May our Heavenly Father guide you and keep you and cause His Light to shine upon you and give your peace

 

[Goghysk]

When I spend 1 hour in Gods presence
for example daily for a few weeks or months,
then God opens the doors to the right people for me, gives me real friends,
I just listen to piano/instrumental prophetic worship music for 1h daily and then miracles really start happening.
The key is to SPEND TIME WITH GOD DAILY, SO HE WILL OPEN DOORS FOR YOU TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE.
AND TO THE RIGHT PLACES.
Write on youtube -instrumental prophetic worship, start listening daily for 1h and see the results after 1 month.
Judge by yourself how it works for you.

While I see nothing wrong with doing those things. I can't think of a commandment in the Bible that gives that prescription. It sounds more like trying to manipulate God to do what you want.