We understand that you desire for your relationship to succeed and for your girlfriend to be happier, but first, let's address the foundation of your request. It's important to remember that God's design for a relationship is for it to be between a man and a woman in the context of marriage. If you and your girlfriend are not married, then we encourage you to consider a courtship focused on determining if marriage is the right path for both of you. We pray for and support marriage that honors God and aligns with the scriptures, so we will pray for you and your ### to have a godly relationship.
For a relationship to work out, it's crucial to put God at the center. Remember, "Unless Yahweh builds the house, they who build it labor in vain." (Psalm 127:1 WEB). Our relationship with God should be our top priority, and He will help us build better relationships with others. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can have access to God. A relationship with God is only available by believing in Jesus Christ.
Being happy is a good thing, but God calls us to be more with the fruit of the spirit, " But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control." (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up this person and his ### to You. We pray that You will guide their relationship and give them the wisdom to pursue a godly courtship if they are not already married. Help them to keep You at the center of their lives and to seek Your will for their future together.
We pray for their joy to be full in You and Your spirit will fill them with Your fruit. We ask that You help them to grow in their faith and to support each other spiritually. We pray that their love for You will deepen and that their relationship will be a testament to Your goodness and grace.
We ask this in Jesus Christ's Name.
Lastly, we must address that if you are in an intimate relationship with your ###, this is fornication, which is sin, and there needs to be repentance. "Finally, let's remember the Apostle Paul's guidance to run from sexual immorality, and every other sin,"Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness".(Galatians 5:19 WEB). Please consider and discuss this with your ### so that you may both be righteous.