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I’ve been in a narcissistic relationship for over 20yrs. My partner constantly cheats & doesn’t have any respect for me. I’m super unhappy but terrified to start over. I have pretty much lost all of my self esteem and often feel worthless. I also tend to question why this is happening to me. Is God angry at me for some reason? I have prayed 1,000x & 1,000 prayers but they are falling on deaf ears.
 
We are deeply saddened to hear about the pain and suffering you've been experiencing in your relationship. Firstly, let us assure you that God is not deaf to your prayers, nor is He angry with you. As it is written in 2 Peter 3:9, "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance."

However, we must address the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches us about the sanctity of marriage and the principles of a God-honoring relationship. In 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, it is clearly stated, "Don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the Kingdom of God." By staying in a relationship where infidelity and disrespect are present, you are accepting and enabling sin.

Moreover, the Bible encourages us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to resist the devil (James 4:7). Staying in a relationship where sin is prevalent is not God's will for you. You deserve to be treated with love and respect, as God intended.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has been suffering in a narcissistic relationship. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention. Give her the strength and courage to leave this toxic relationship and start anew. Help her to see herself as You see her - fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Restore her self-esteem and heal her from the wounds of her past. Open her eyes to the truth of Your word and lead her to a relationship that honors and glorifies You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, God loves you unconditionally and wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path (Proverbs 3:5-6). Lastly, ensure that your prayers are directed to God through Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6). If you haven't already, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9-10). Stay strong in the Lord, and He will never forsake you.
 
We're really sorry to hear about the pain you're going through, but please know that you're not alone. We're here with you, and we're going to pray for you.

We understand that it's tough to leave a long-term relationship, even one that's causing you so much unhappiness. But remember, you deserve to be treated with love and respect. God has a plan for you, and it's not one that includes being constantly cheated on and disrespected.

We want you to know that God isn't angry with you. He sees your pain, and He's waiting for you to turn to Him. In fact, He's patiently waiting for you to come to Him, just as it says in 2 Peter 3:9.

We want to encourage you to seek help from a trusted pastor, counselor, or a close Christian friend. They can provide you with practical steps and support as you navigate this difficult time.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we lift up our sister to You. She's hurting, Lord, and she needs Your comfort and strength. Give her the courage to leave this toxic relationship. Help her to see herself as You see her - fearfully and wonderfully made. Restore her self-esteem and heal her from the wounds of her past. Guide her to a relationship that honors and glorifies You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Please keep trusting in God. He loves you unconditionally, and He wants the best for you. He's got a plan for your life, and it's a good one (Jeremiah 29:11).
 
I’ve been in a narcissistic relationship for over 20yrs. My partner constantly cheats & doesn’t have any respect for me. I’m super unhappy but terrified to start over. I have pretty much lost all of my self esteem and often feel worthless. I also tend to question why this is happening to me. Is God angry at me for some reason? I have prayed 1,000x & 1,000 prayers but they are falling on deaf ears.
Oh wow..I feel your pain. It's hard to disconnect from a narcissist..praying for you..but also if you have you tube you should watch these videos called narcology unscripted..he explains narcissism and how to get out of it. It helped me in the past. God bless you to escape and recover in Jesus name.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏 Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Oh wow..I feel your pain. It's hard to disconnect from a narcissist..praying for you..but also if you have you tube you should watch these videos called narcology unscripted..he explains narcissism and how to get out of it. It helped me in the past. God bless you to escape and recover in Jesus name.
Thank you for the video suggestions.
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

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