Abusive Narcissistic husband that love to sin

[Anonymous]

My husband has been physically, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually abusive to me for years. He has always cheated on me but I thought once we got married in ###, it would stop. He committed adultery the first 2 weeks of our marriage because he said that he didn't get over me seeing someone else while we were separated. He was in a relationship and so was I. I became pregnant by the person but didn't know it when we got back together so he has used that to be with several women, bust my eardrum, put his hands on me, etc. After 9 years of this abuse, in ###, I committed adultery and now he can't handle what he dished out. To this day, he keeps throwing up both instances in my face and chokes me out and humiliates me but wants my forgiveness, which I have done because I want God to forgive me. I have confessed my sins to God, repented of my sins, and turned from sin. I personally saw satan enter my husband one night we were in bed and his chest rose all the way up and his eyes were fixated while he was fussing at me. In his mind since I committed adultery 15 years ago he says the only way we can fix our marriage is for us to have a threesome or he keeps cheating and I better not say anything to him about it. He said he needs to give me consequences for what I did. Almighty God has kept me from flipping all the way out. He tells me that if I leave him he will kill me and himself. He's full of anger, he isolates me, I hate going home, I'm like a prisoner in my own home. Sometimes when I wake up he's staring at me with so much hate in his eyes. He wakes up mad, he goes to bed mad. He's only happy when he has sinned or forces things upon me that he knows that I hate. Once he humiliates me then he wants sex or that's another problem. I feel like I'm constantly raped by my husband. Please pray for me.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the abuse and turmoil you are experiencing in your marriage. First and foremost, we condemn any form of abuse, whether physical, emotional, or sexual. This is not God's design for marriage, we need to take this very seriously. The Bible tells us that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church, giving Himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). This is a sacrificial and cherishing love, not an abusive and controlling one.

Your husband's behaviors, including his demands for inappropriate sexual activities and his threats, are gravely sinful and need to be addressed with the utmost seriousness. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). It is clear that your husband is deeply entangled in sin and is using it to control and harm you.

It is also very concerning that you are living in fear and isolation. This is not a safe or healthy environment for you. We need to acknowledge that God does not desire for you to live in fear and abuse. He wants you to have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10 WEB).

We must also address the spiritual warfare aspect you mentioned. The Bible tells us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). It is possible that your husband's behaviors have opened doors to spiritual influences that are not of God.

You have taken the right steps by confessing and repenting of your own sin. Remember that there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1 WEB). However, your husband's continued throwing up of past sins is not from God. He is not showing the forgiveness that God calls us to (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).

We strongly advise you to seek safety and support immediately. This could look like contacting local authorities, a trusted pastor, a Christian counselor, or a domestic violence hotline. God does not call you to remain in a situation where you are being harmed and living in fear. It is important to have a safety plan in place.

Let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister who is living in a situation of abuse and fear. Lord, we ask for Your divine protection over her. Guide her to a place of safety and surround her with people who will support and advocate for her. Give her the strength and courage to take the steps necessary to remove herself from this dangerous situation.

Lord, we also pray for her husband. We pray that You would convict him of his sins and bring him to a place of true repentance. We pray that You would set him free from the spiritual influences that are controlling him.

Father, we ask that You would heal the wounds that have been caused by this abuse. Restore her faith and trust in You. Help her to know that You are a good Father who loves her deeply and desires the best for her.

We pray all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. It is in His name that we have access to You, Father, and it is by His blood that we are saved and set free. Amen.

Please know that you are not alone. We are standing with you in prayer and support. It is crucial that you take steps to ensure your safety and well-being. God desires for you to be free and to live in the fullness of His love.

 

[hostadmin]

Oh, dear sister, our hearts ache for you as you bear this heavy burden. We're here for you, holding you up in prayer. We understand that you've been living in a storm of abuse, fear, and isolation. It's not right, and it's not what God intended for your marriage. He wants you to live in peace, joy, and safety.

We're concerned about your husband's demands and threats. They're not okay, and they're not from God. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality, not engage in it. We urge you, please, prioritize your safety. It's not safe to stay where you're being harmed and threatened.

We also see the spiritual warfare at play here. It's not just about your husband; there are dark forces at work. But remember, greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). You're not alone in this fight.

We're so glad to hear that you've confessed and repented of your own sins. That's a crucial step. But now, it's important to focus on your safety and well-being. God doesn't want you to live in fear. He wants you to have life, and have it abundantly (John 10:10).

Please, reach out to local authorities, a trusted pastor, a Christian counselor, or a domestic violence hotline. They can help you create a safety plan. God doesn't want you to stay where you're being harmed. He wants you to be free.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, lifting up our sister. Lord, we ask for Your divine protection over her. Guide her to a place of safety, surround her with people who will support and advocate for her. Give her the strength and courage to take the steps necessary to remove herself from this dangerous situation.

Lord, we also pray for her husband. Convict him of his sins, bring him to a place of true repentance, and set him free from the spiritual influences controlling him.

Father, heal the wounds caused by this abuse. Restore her faith and trust in You. Help her to know that You are a good Father who loves her deeply and desires the best for her.

We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."

You're not alone, dear sister. We're standing with you in prayer and support. It's crucial that you take steps to ensure your safety and well-being. God desires for you to be free and to live in the fullness of His love. Trust in Him, and take courage. You can do this, with God by your side.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Isaac Samuel Lubwama]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate this incredibly challenging situation. We are honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you before the throne of God.

If God has granted you a breakthrough and your request has been answered, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also crying out to God in difficult circumstances.

If your situation has not improved, or if you feel that your prayers have not been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We want you to know that we are committed to praying with you and for you. We will continue to ask God to intervene, to protect you, and to change your husband's heart. Remember, God sees you, He hears your cries, and He cares about your suffering.

We pray that God will give you strength, courage, and wisdom. May He guide you to trusted counselors and a supportive community that can help you find a path to safety and peace. We pray that God will bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.

In Jesus Name.