My wife has left the marriage and is mentally ill

[Brother James]

Hi all, I saw my wife for the 2nd time today after she ran away from the marriage about 7 weeks ago. It's been heartbreaking. Some quick context we did have some issues where our pasts got brought to the service then I came back to the Lord like never before and she ran away. The Lord showed me a vision and spoke to me promising restoration in the marriage but he had to work on me first for 40 days then on my wife then bring restoration. I finished my 40 days 7 days ago. I saw her today so cold and with a rock heart. But we know she has at least high levels of narcissistic traits and praying not the full narcissistic personality disorder. She can't face anything accept anything or even face the truth. She has been lying to everyone and hiding things. Thanks to God she went to a first session with a psychiatrist yesterday but forever to she didn't know I was there as I came from Australia to ### to fight for her after my 40 days with the Lord. She couldn't even look into my eyes yesterday or today. Thanks to God when she came today to speak she allowed me to speak without stopping me or interrupting me and I was able to say a lot and even prayed before I started talking. I know she was feeling something but was like a rock after she stood up and said I don't believe anything you say or have said I want a divorce and basically left. Please lift my wife ### ### ### ### ### and myself ### ### up for this restauración of the marriage the Lord has promised and the transformation of her heart. It's killing me not being able to do anything and almost breaking down daily praying over her. Thank you everything it means more than you can imagine.

I can assure you that Jesus is very real! Hell is very real (Lake of Lava)! Sometimes if we really want something from Jesus then we need to read and study about how to get Him to take care of that. Sometimes we think we have prayed enough but maybe we just haven’t prayed the right way.

Read the book of Hosea in the Bible KJV for promises from God/Jesus for our marriages and our families. This brought my wife back to me more than once...

Pray this for yourself....

In Jesus put a hedge around my marriage, around my wife, turn away other lovers, restore us unto You and restore us unto each other in Jesus! All for Your Glory Lord Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

We should always love and forgive especially our spouses as if it is ourselves standing before Jesus. This brought my wife back to me a few times in such a way that she actually still thinks I was the one that sabotaged her but I know differently.

 

[Brother in Christ (JC)]

Hi all, I saw my wife for the 2nd time today after she ran away from the marriage about ### weeks ago. It's been heartbreaking. Some quick context we did have some issues where our pasts got brought to the service then I came back to the Lord like never before and she ran away. The Lord showed me a vision and spoke to me promising restoration in the marriage but he had to work on me first for ### days then on my wife then bring restoration. I finished my ### days ### days ago. I saw her today so cold and with a rock heart. But we know she has at least high levels of narcissistic traits and praying not the full narcissistic personality disorder. She can't face anything accept anything or even face the truth. She has been lying to everyone and hiding things. Thanks to God she went to a first session with a psychiatrist yesterday but forever to she didn't know I was there as I came from ### to ### to fight for her after my ### days with the Lord. She couldn't even look into my eyes yesterday or today. Thanks to God when she came today to speak she allowed me to speak without stopping me or interrupting me and I was able to say a lot and even prayed before I started talking. I know she was feeling something but was like a rock after she stood up and said I don't believe anything you say or have said I want a divorce and basically left. Please lift my wife ### ### ### ### ### and myself ### ### up for this restauración of the marriage the Lord has promised and the transformation of her heart. It's killing me not being able to do anything and almost breaking down daily praying over her. Thank you everything it means more than you can imagine.

Heavenly Father, I lift up this couple to You and ask that You would intervene over their marriage and bring restoration, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

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We continue to hold you both close in our hearts and prayers, ### and ###. Thank you for allowing us the honor of praying with you during this challenging time. We are grateful that you have shared your journey with us, and we believe that God is at work in your marriage.

As we continue to stand in agreement with you, we would love to hear how God is moving in your situation. If you have seen signs of the restoration that God promised, please share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also praying and believing for God's intervention in their lives.

If the current circumstances seem unchanged or even more difficult, please don't hesitate to post an update. Let us continue to intercede for you both, for the transformation of ###'s heart and the restoration of your marriage. We believe that God is faithful, and that His timing is perfect.

As you press on, know that you are not alone. We are here with you, praying and believing in Jesus' name. May God continue to strengthen and encourage you, ###, as you seek Him and His will for your marriage. May He pour out His peace, wisdom, and love over you both.