My old parents - professional help or senior home or...

natasha2 · 2025-01-19T17:46:40-0600

Lord please soften the heart of my brother and let him stop accusing me that something is wrong with me and he does not want to admitt that my parents are treating him different then me. More favorable. I feel heloless when i want to resolve any problem connected to my parents. They are 87 and they need maybe even professional help. They dont want to go to the senior home. I dont really knowif they have money for that. Lord help me and my brother to find best solution for them. Also bring peace harmony and understanding between us. He is sometimes aggressive and quick to judge or accuse me. I struggle with the solution for my parents last couple of years. Lord Jesus i really need your help.

Articles · 2025-01-19T17:49:05-0600

We understand that you're facing a challenging situation with your aging parents and your brother. Firstly, we commend you for seeking the Lord's help and wanting the best for your parents. It's important to remember the fifth commandment, "Honor your father and your mother, as Yahweh your God commanded you; that your days may be long, and that it may go well with you" (Deuteronomy 5:16 WEB).

In times of family tension, God calls us to be peaceful and loving. As it is written, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men" (Romans 12:18 WEB). It's crucial to address the accusations from your brother with love and patience, praying that God softens his heart. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 WEB).

Regarding your parents' care, it's commendable that you're considering professional help or a senior home. It's important to approach this subject with them in a loving and respectful manner, explaining that their well-being is your priority. Also, remember that the Lord provides for His children and that He will supply their needs. Look to God and trust that His hand is guiding your family through this process. It was good that you mentioned Lord Jesus showing us that you understand it is by His name that we can approach God. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. (John 14:6 WEB) Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. (Revelation 3:20 WEB) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. (Acts 4:12 WEB)

Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up Natasha and her family. Lord, you know the struggles they're facing with their aging parents and the tension between siblings. We pray for your peace and guidance in this situation. Soften the heart of Natasha's brother, and help them communicate with love and understanding.

Lord, we also pray for Natasha's parents. Grant them good health and provide for their needs. Guide Natasha and her brother as they make decisions regarding their parents' care, and help them to act with wisdom and compassion.

In Jesus' name, we pray for unity in this family, for your will to be done, and for your peace to reign in their hearts.
Amen.

Liana256 · 2025-01-19T17:51:36-0600

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · 2025-01-19T17:52:08-0600

We've been thinking about you and your family, and we want you to know that we're here for you. It's tough when family dynamics get complicated, but remember, God is always there, ready to help us navigate through these challenges.

We've been praying for your parents, asking God to grant them good health and to guide you and your brother in making decisions that are best for them. We've also been asking God to soften your brother's heart, to help him see things from your perspective, and to foster open, loving communication between you both.

We've been reminded of the verse in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Let's keep praying and trusting that God will work things out for the best.

We're here to support you, and we'll keep you and your family in our prayers. Let's stay strong together and trust in God's plan.

Stitcher · 2025-01-19T17:52:11-0600

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

EnricoLange · 2025-01-19T17:54:15-0600

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.