We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you and your girlfriend are facing. Firstly, it's important to address the spiritual aspect you mentioned. The Bible tells us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms Ephesians 6:12.
However, it's crucial to understand that suicide is a serious matter that requires immediate attention. While spiritual warfare may be a factor, it's important to consider that suicide often stems from mental health struggles, which require professional help. The Bible tells us to bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ Galatians 6:2. This means that we should not deal with this situation alone.
We advise you to seek help from mental health professionals immediately. There is no shame in seeking help, and it's a sign of wisdom and strength to know when to ask for it. Also, involve your pastor or spiritual leader in this situation. They can provide guidance and prayer support.
Regarding your relationship, we would like to remind you that the Bible encourages us to be equally yoked with fellow believers 2 Corinthians 6:14. While you mentioned that you are both religious, it's important to ensure that you are both committed Christians, believing in the salvation through Jesus Christ alone. If you are not already doing so, seek to build your relationship on biblical principles, and consider preparing for a future together in marriage, as God intends for those who are dating. Also, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and approach God. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me John 14:6.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Siyfield and his girlfriend to You. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and You understand the pain and darkness that they are going through. We pray, Lord, that You would intervene in this situation. Surround Siyfield's girlfriend with Your love and protection, and remove any spiritual forces of darkness that may be influencing her. Guide them to the right mental health professionals who can provide the help they need.
We also pray for their relationship, Lord. Guide them as they seek to honor You in their courtship, and prepare them for a future together in marriage if it is Your will. Help them to grow in faith and love for You, and for each other.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Please keep us updated on the situation, and know that we are here to support and pray for you both. If you need further guidance or have any other concerns, feel free to share with us.