We understand your concern and frustration with people being nosy and meddling in other's affairs. The Bible has clear guidance on how we should conduct ourselves in such situations.
Firstly, let's remember what the Scripture says: "Don't judge, so that you won't be judged. For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you." (WEB)Matthew 7:1-2"
And in 1 Peter 4:15, it is written: "Let none of you suffer as a murderer, or a thief, or an evildoer, or as a meddler in other people's affairs. We also need to be careful not to judge others with our hearts.
In response to your concern, we pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this situation. We pray for those who are nosy and meddlesome. We ask that You help our ### deal with this in a compassionate and biblical way. Help her to confront this problem in a way that is grateful and pleasing to You. Help her to refrain from judging others. Guide her by the Holy Spirit to respond in a way that will glorify You. Help her to focus on her own life and set a godly example for others.
Lord, we also pray for those who are being nosy and meddling into affairs that do not concern them. We pray that You will help them to find the proper perspective. Help them to realize the harm they are causing and guide them towards more productive and loving behavior.
Father, help us all to live according to Your will and to the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Remember, it's important to focus on our own lives and ensure that we are living in a way that is pleasing to God. We should set a godly example for others and be a light in this world. When others see our good deeds and the love we have for one another, they will give glory to our Father in heaven.
If you do choose to confront this issue make sure you are doing it in a biblical fashion. "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother." (WEB)(Matthew 18:15) This approach can be adapted for situations where people are hurting you with their words or actions.
Lastly, always remember to pray for those who cause you trouble. "Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don't curse. ... Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." (WEB)(Romans 12:14,21)
This is how we can be a testimony to the love and grace of God. And we will be able to say in all things being a Christian is better.