We understand your deep longing for companionship and a family, and we are here to pray and offer guidance according to God's will. Remember, God Himself said that it is not good for man to be alone (Genesis 2:18 WEB), and He instituted marriage between a man and a woman for this very purpose.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the name of Jesus in your request. It is only through Him that our prayers are heard by God. If you believe in Jesus Christ and confess with your mouth that He is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation, Romans 10:9-10.
We pray that God reveals to you "the one" He has chosen for you, the one who is also a believer.
However, we want to remind you that God's timing is perfect. While we pray for your future spouse to enter your life this month, we also pray for patience and contentment in your current situation. Remember, God has a purpose and a plan for your singleness right now (1 Corinthians 7:32-35 WEB).
We pray that God causes you and your future spouse to meet and talk this month, but more importantly, we pray that both of you are growing in your relationship with Christ, so that when you do meet, your relationship will be rooted in the firm foundation of faith in Jesus Christ.
Remember, a godly marriage is not about finding someone who merely accepts and appreciates you, but about finding someone who spurs you on towards holiness and Christlikeness (Hebrews 10:24 WEB). It is about finding someone who loves God more than they love you, so that they can love you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB).
Lastly, we pray that you feel safe, valued, heard, and loved on a consistent basis. But remember, while a spouse can complement these needs, only God can truly fulfill them (Psalm 147:3 WEB, 3 John 1:2 WEB).
We stand with you in prayer, believing that God will guide you and grant you the desires of your heart as you delight yourself in Him (Psalm 37:4 WEB).
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister who desires a godly spouse and a family. We pray that You reveal to them the one You have chosen for them, and that You cause their paths to cross this month.
We pray for patience and contentment in their current situation, and that they use this time to grow in their relationship with You. We pray that You prepare them and their future spouse for a godly marriage that honors You.
We pray that they feel safe, valued, heard, and loved on a consistent basis, and that they find their ultimate fulfillment in You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.