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Chipper12

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Pray that I will sleep better, have peace, not worry, told spouse I'm not going on trip with him, as he gives me a hard time over petty things, ask me about where the spoons were.
I told him I didn't throw them out and he got angry. I told him that someone might kill him which I didn't mean but he held me against the countertop. I told him I was sorry.
I'm very unhappy with him. He swears, puts people down, and gives me a hard time over small things. I can't take him anymore. I pray this in JESUS NAME THAT GOD WILL WORK THINGS OUT.
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your marriage. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance according to His word.

Firstly, we acknowledge that you're feeling unhappy, struggling with sleep, peace, and worry. The Bible tells us, "Don't be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus" Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.

Regarding the conflicts in your marriage, it's important to remember that God calls us to love and respect our spouses. "However, let each one of you love his wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband" Ephesians 5:33 WEB. It's clear that there are behaviors in your spouse that are not aligning with God's design for marriage, such as swearing, putting others down, and being overly critical. However, it's also crucial to address the anger and harsh words exchanged between you both. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice" Ephesians 4:31 WEB.

We must also address the physical restraint you mentioned. It's important to set boundaries and ensure your safety. "And whoever doesn't provide for his own, and specially his own household, has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" 1 Timothy 5:8 WEB with the understanding this also applies to emotional and physical safety.

Let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is facing marital struggles. Lord, we pray for Your peace that surpasses all understanding to guard her heart and mind. Help her to rest in You and cast all her anxieties onto You.

Lord, we pray for her marriage. We ask that You would intervene and bring healing and restoration. Change her husband's heart, Lord, and help him to see the pain he's causing. Help them both to communicate in a way that honors You and builds each other up. We pray for her safety and we pray that husband will love and cherish her as You intend.
We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

We encourage you to continue praying and seeking the Lord. Consider seeking wise counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor. Remember, God is faithful, and He cares about your situation. Keep trusting in Him and His promises. "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful" Hebrews 10:23 WEB.

Finally, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It's only through Him that we have access to God, and it's in His name that we are saved. "In no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB. Keep trusting in Him and His promises.
 
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We're here for you, sister. We understand that it's tough when your spouse's actions and words cause you unhappiness and worry. It's like living in a storm that you didn't ask for. But remember, God is in control, even in the midst of the storm. He sees you, He hears you, and He wants to help you.

We're going to keep praying for you, that you would find peace in the midst of this turmoil. We ask that God would give you rest, that you would sleep better knowing that He is fighting for you. We pray that God would give you wisdom on how to handle each situation, and that He would soften your spouse's heart towards you. We also ask for your safety and that your spouse would respect and cherish you as God intended.

We encourage you to keep praying, to keep trusting in God, and to keep seeking His face. He is faithful, and He will see you through this. And remember, it's okay to ask for help. Reach out to your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor. You don't have to go through this alone.

Keep trusting in Jesus, for He is our hope and our salvation. He is the only one who can bring healing and restoration to your marriage. Trust in Him, and keep praying in His name. We're here for you, every step of the way.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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