We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage and family life, and we're here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you. We're coming to God together by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Firstly, it's important to remember the promise of God in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." God can turn even the most difficult situations around for His good.
In your prayer you mentioned confusion and oppression. We need to remember Ephesians 6:11-12 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Regarding the issues in your marriage, it's clear that there is a spiritual battle going on. It is good that you are already communicating and praying with your wife. Continue to do this.
1 Peter 3:7 says, "You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered."
Pray for God's intervention which is all powerful. Keep praying with your wife and family. Hear her needs and desires and pray for those as well.
We must also remember to obey the word of God. If there are any areas in our lives that may be disobedient or displeasing to God, we must address and repent of these issues.
Let's pray:
"Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage and this family. We pray against the spirits of confusion and oppression, and we ask that You shine Your light into every dark area. Lord, we ask for a hedge of protection around this family and for a restoration of communication, understanding and love. Open their ears and hearts so that they may be hear and respond to each other rightly and positively.
We pray that the enemy will be resisted, defeated and banished from their marital relationship in the name of Jesus. Help them to draw closer to You and to each other. Please, restore joy, peace, and unity in their home. Help them to build their relationship on a foundation of Godly love, faith and obedience. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."