We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your marriage, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance with you.
Firstly, we need to acknowledge that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, where both parties strive to reflect the love that Christ has for his church Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB. It's clear that your marriage is facing challenges, and it's commendable that you're seeking prayer and support.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up this marriage to you. We pray for peace to reign in their home, as you are the God of peace Philippians 4:9 WEB. We ask that you work in the heart of the husband, that he may realize any mistreatment and repent from it. We pray that his heart would be softened, that he would love his wife just as Christ loves the church Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB.
Now, we would like you to consider this:
Moreover, we advise you to be patient and loving towards your husband. God calls us to live in peace with others as much as possible Romans 12:18 WEB. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about how you feel. Use your that you are feeling mistreated by not being loved as a wife should. Make sure that you are submitting to your husband in everything as unto the Lord Ephesians 5;22-24 WEB.
Here is a reminder about God's instructions to husbands and wives:
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. Ephesians 5:22-28
Please note that we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. If your husband is not a believer in Jesus Christ and His teachings, this could be a source of contention and problems in your marriage.
Don't be deceived. Bad company corrupts good character. Wake up from your drunken stupor, as is right, and don’t sin. For some have no knowledge of God. I say this to your shame. 1 Corinthians 15:33-34 WEB
We are not aware that your husband is a believer or not. Regardless, we are praying that he will see the Light of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and turn from his sinful ways.
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What agreement has Christ with Beliar? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever? 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 WEB
Lastly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father, and it is by His name that we are saved.
Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6 WEB
In Jesus name we pray.