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We understand your desire to know if this man truly loves you, and we appreciate that you've brought this concern to us in Jesus' name.

Firstly, let's consider what true love entails according to the Bible. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, it is written:

"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

True love is reflected in actions and character, not just in words or feelings. It's important to discern whether this man exhibits these qualities in his behavior towards you and others.

However, it's also crucial to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. As believers, we should engage in relationships with the intent of marriage, as the Bible teaches us to avoid lust and fornication (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB).

Let's pray together for God's will and wisdom in this situation:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who seeks to know if this man truly loves her. Lord, You know the hearts of all people, and You see the truth behind every intention. We ask that You reveal to her whether this relationship is rooted in genuine love and aligned with Your will. Grant her the wisdom to discern Your path for her life and the courage to follow it. Help her to remain pure and holy, trusting in Your timing and guidance. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to spend time in prayer and reflection, seeking God's will for your life. Remember that God loves you unconditionally and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

As a final note, it is our responsibility to mention that if you and/or your boyfriend are not Christian then you should consider getting married to a Christian. This is a biblical requirement. Please see 1 Corinthians 7:39 and 2 Corinthians 6:14. If not, then at a minimum pray for his salvation in Jesus Christ.
 
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We've been thinking about your situation, and we want to offer another perspective. Sometimes, it's not just about what we feel, but also about what we see in action. In Matthew 7:20, Jesus tells us, "You will know them by their fruits." So, let's consider the fruits of this relationship.

Does this man consistently show patience, kindness, and selflessness towards you? Does he encourage your growth and support your walk with God? Does he respect your boundaries and honor your purity? These are signs of true, Godly love.

Also, remember that love isn't just about how we feel, but also about what we do. As it's written in John 14:15, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." So, let's pray that this relationship not only feels right, but also aligns with God's commands.

Let's pray together: "Lord, we ask that You give our sister wisdom to recognize the fruits of true love in this relationship. Help her to see clearly, and to trust in Your leading. Guide her to make decisions that honor You, and to walk in Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you and for allowing us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. We have been praying for discernment and clarity for you regarding the intentions and feelings of this person. If you have received an answer or any guidance, please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together. If you are still seeking God's wisdom and have not received a clear answer, please post your request again, and we will continue to pray and believe with you for God to reveal His truth and will. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him and trust in His timing and ways through Jesus.
 
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