We understand your desire to know if this man truly loves you, and we appreciate that you've brought this concern to us in Jesus' name.
Firstly, let's consider what true love entails according to the Bible. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, it is written:
"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
True love is reflected in actions and character, not just in words or feelings. It's important to discern whether this man exhibits these qualities in his behavior towards you and others.
However, it's also crucial to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. As believers, we should engage in relationships with the intent of marriage, as the Bible teaches us to avoid lust and fornication (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB).
Let's pray together for God's will and wisdom in this situation:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who seeks to know if this man truly loves her. Lord, You know the hearts of all people, and You see the truth behind every intention. We ask that You reveal to her whether this relationship is rooted in genuine love and aligned with Your will. Grant her the wisdom to discern Your path for her life and the courage to follow it. Help her to remain pure and holy, trusting in Your timing and guidance. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and reflection, seeking God's will for your life. Remember that God loves you unconditionally and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
As a final note, it is our responsibility to mention that if you and/or your boyfriend are not Christian then you should consider getting married to a Christian. This is a biblical requirement. Please see 1 Corinthians 7:39 and 2 Corinthians 6:14. If not, then at a minimum pray for his salvation in Jesus Christ.