We understand that you're going through a difficult time, but we want to help you align your desires with God's will and His Word. Above all, it's crucial to trust in God's plan for your life and not try to force your own will.
Firstly, let's address the issue of magic or spells. The Bible is clear that such practices are forbidden. The LORD says in Deuteronomy 18:10-12, "There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh."
We do not know what is really happening in the other person's life, but it is best to focus on what you can be sure about, which is God's promises. Let's trust in God's plan for you, and pray for Him to bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.
Also, it is important to clarify that it is only by Jesus Christ that we have access to God. If you have not already done so, it is our prayer that you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus Christ's name, lifting up our ### who is experiencing heartache and pain. We ask, Lord, that you soothe her heart, and help her to trust in You and Your plan for her life. Help her to let go of the past and move forward in Your will.
Lord, we know that Your word says, "Delight yourself in Yahweh, And he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4). Help our ### to delight in You, Lord, and to seek You first. Help her to desire Your will above her own, and to trust that You have a good plan for her life.
We also pray for the young man, that You would reveal Your truth to him, and draw him closer to You. We ask that You would bring godly influences into his life, and that You would give him a heart that desires to follow You.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would bring the right godly spouse into our ###'s life, in Your perfect timing. Give her peace and contentment in the waiting, and help her to trust in You.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to seek God's will for your life, and to trust in Him. Spend time in His Word, and in prayer, and He will guide you and give you peace. Also, get involved in a local Bible teaching church where you can meet like-minded Christians. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
