Losing my mind

What do you do when your boyfriend is confused about his feelings?


Do:
  1. Give him time. If he had already made up his mind about calling it quits, you would know. But, if you think that this is a phase (which is probably is), then give it time. ...
  2. Give him space. Give him space to streamline his thoughts, and give him space to miss you. ...
  3. Give him reassurance.
Here are some tips for you to help your man to tear down his emotional iron curtain.
How do you get him to open up about his feelings?

How To Get Him To Open Up And Talk About His Feelings
  1. Don't Assume You Know What He's Thinking.
  2. Wait Until It's A Good Time To Ask.
  3. Give Him Space To Respond.
  4. Show Him Appreciation.
  5. Don't Make Him Wrong For His Feelings.
  6. Notice His Body Language.
  7. Talk About His Interests.
  8. Play Games Together.
 
How do you get him to open up about his feelings?

How To Get Him To Open Up And Talk About His Feelings
  1. Don't Assume You Know What He's Thinking.
  2. Wait Until It's A Good Time To Ask.
  3. Give Him Space To Respond.
  4. Show Him Appreciation.
  5. Don't Make Him Wrong For His Feelings.
  6. Notice His Body Language.
  7. Talk About His Interests.
  8. Play Games Together.
What do you call someone who can't express their feelings?

Alexithymia is a broad term to describe problems with feeling emotions. ... People who do have alexithymia may describe themselves as having difficulties with expressing emotionsthat are deemed socially appropriate, such as happiness on a joyous occasion. Others may furthermore have trouble identifying their emotions.
 
What do you call someone who can't express their feelings?

Alexithymia is a broad term to describe problems with feeling emotions. ... People who do have alexithymia may describe themselves as having difficulties with expressing emotionsthat are deemed socially appropriate, such as happiness on a joyous occasion. Others may furthermore have trouble identifying their emotions.
How do you tell if a guy is fighting his feelings?

Signs he is fighting his feelings for you
  1. He stares at you. When I say hestares at you, I'm not referring to that creepy, stalkerish kind of stare. ...
  2. He is protective. ...
  3. He's either attentive or ignoring. ...
  4. He gets jealous. ...
  5. He asks you questions. ...
  6. He listens to what you have to say. ...
  7. He remembers things that you tell him. ...
  8. His body language gives him away.
 
How do you tell if a guy is fighting his feelings?

Signs he is fighting his feelings for you
  1. He stares at you. When I say hestares at you, I'm not referring to that creepy, stalkerish kind of stare. ...
  2. He is protective. ...
  3. He's either attentive or ignoring. ...
  4. He gets jealous. ...
  5. He asks you questions. ...
  6. He listens to what you have to say. ...
  7. He remembers things that you tell him. ...
  8. His body language gives him away.
What disorder causes lack of emotions?

Schizoid personality disorder is one of many personality disorders. It can cause individuals to seem distant and emotionless, rarely engaging in social situations or pursuing relationships with other people.
 
What disorder causes lack of emotions?

Schizoid personality disorder is one of many personality disorders. It can cause individuals to seem distant and emotionless, rarely engaging in social situations or pursuing relationships with other people.
What is narcissistic alexithymia?
Alexithymia is when you have trouble identifying and describing your feelings as well as others, and struggle with empathy and NPD (Narcissisticpersonality disorder) is an overinflation of self importance.
 
What is narcissistic alexithymia?
Alexithymia is when you have trouble identifying and describing your feelings as well as others, and struggle with empathy and NPD (Narcissisticpersonality disorder) is an overinflation of self importance.
Can someone with alexithymia love you?
Although people with alexithymia fall in love, they don't know how to show affection. Their significant others find themselves in an emotional vacuum, where their most basic emotional needs aren't being met. ... They fall in love, experience emotions, feel happy, and suffer just like anyone else.
 
Can someone with alexithymia love you?
Although people with alexithymia fall in love, they don't know how to show affection. Their significant others find themselves in an emotional vacuum, where their most basic emotional needs aren't being met. ... They fall in love, experience emotions, feel happy, and suffer just like anyone else.
How do you tell if a guy has strong feelings for you?

5 Ultimate Signs Your Almost Caught Feelings For You

He
puts your hair behind your ear, so he can have a better look at your smiley face. He pulls you close when he feels endearment towards youbecause of something you've said. Hewill hug you and kiss you often, and it will be intense.
 
How do you tell if a guy has strong feelings for you?

5 Ultimate Signs Your Almost Caught Feelings For You

He
puts your hair behind your ear, so he can have a better look at your smiley face. He pulls you close when he feels endearment towards youbecause of something you've said. Hewill hug you and kiss you often, and it will be intense.
Why do guys act distant when they like you?

One of the obvious reasons why a guymay ignore or act disinterested in youis because he feels you are too good for him. ... Or he fears being in painful one-sided love, so he thinks it is better not to act upon his feelings and maintain distance from you to avoid getting hurt.
 
Why do guys act distant when they like you?

One of the obvious reasons why a guymay ignore or act disinterested in youis because he feels you are too good for him. ... Or he fears being in painful one-sided love, so he thinks it is better not to act upon his feelings and maintain distance from you to avoid getting hurt.
How do you tell if a guy is slowly falling for you?
10 Signs He Is Slowly Falling For You
  1. He gets miffed, worried or downright angry when you delay in answering him. ...
  2. He's not afraid to talk about the future – in fact he brings it up. ...
  3. It's not all about sex anymore – hereally wants to know what's on your mind. ...
  4. He says a lot in his eyes, not his words.
 
How do you tell if a guy is slowly falling for you?
10 Signs He Is Slowly Falling For You
  1. He gets miffed, worried or downright angry when you delay in answering him. ...
  2. He's not afraid to talk about the future – in fact he brings it up. ...
  3. It's not all about sex anymore – hereally wants to know what's on your mind. ...
  4. He says a lot in his eyes, not his words.
Let’s admit it – men can be hard to read sometimes! Some are elusive and wordy. Some are gruff and silent. Others are extroverted and yet surprisingly shallow and insincere.

The point is, it’s usually uncommon to meet a sane and successful man who just tells you who he is and how he really feels about you.

That’s why sometimes you have to read in between the lines and pay attention to the signs you see. These signs are sometimes more important than what he’s actually saying.

Also, sometimes what he’s saying can be so subtle you might miss his message entirely. And yes, sometimes guys give signals and say things that reveal their true feelings…and they don’t even know it!

So let’s discuss 10 signs that show he’s falling for you.

1. He gets miffed, worried or downright angry when you delay in answering him.​

Men usually don’t like it when women keep them waiting. And true, sometimes men get impatient when women they hardly know don’t respond online and such.

But it’s different when a guy falls for you and then really freaks out when you go silent. Now he’s thinking “What if she’s upset?” or “Is she OK, did something happen?”

The more agitated he gets, the more telling it is that he’s falling for you.

2. He’s not afraid to talk about the future – in fact he brings it up.​

Guys that aren’t that into you loathe thinking about the future. They are happy in the now. But a guy that’s fallen for you, will let you know over time that he sees a future with you. He wants to plan his life around you. This might be a subtle thing at first, but notice the pattern.

3. It’s not all about sex anymore – he really wants to know what’s on your mind.​

It’s no genius observation to say guys fake an interest in what a woman’s saying because they want sex!

Here’s the thing. When a man falls for you, it’s not just about lust anymore. He becomes attracted to your personality. Your life. Your way of thinking and what’s going on in your daily routine. That’s when it’s time for intimacy, when he’s already falling for you and has given you those signs.

4. He says a lot in his eyes, not his words.​

It might be a cliché to say it, but people really can “feel” what you say with your eyes. The longer you stare at a person…the way you imply thoughts with just a glance. All that is very obvious, even if we think we’re hiding those emotions. Pay attention to what he says in those wordless moments.

5. He becomes protective of you, especially around other guys.​

When a man falls for you, he starts to treat you like family – even before the fact. He may get defensive around other guys, or simply thinking about possible safety risks. While some guys do get carried away and become controlling, for the most part, a man simply expressing concern is a sign of great affection.

6. He remembers all the little details about what you do or say, the stuff most guys forget!​

Best way to tell if a guy is really falling for you? When he actually remembers birthdays, anniversaries, and other sentimental things. When he actually remembers specifics about what you said, or habits you have, or anything that you say in passing.

The fact is most guys do NOT retain this information. They repeat information you give them, just in the moment. They don’t remember…unless they already have emotional investment in you.

7. He is always determined to make you happy.​

Whereas many guys are stingy about their time, a guy that likes you will stay up late entertaining you. He will make every effort possible to make you feel good and laugh, even after a tough day. That’s when you know you’ve met someone special, someone who just wants to make your life easier and see you smile again.

8. He will gladly break plans just to be around you.​

Guys play hard to get when you first meet them, don’t they? They don’t want to break plans with friends, or reschedule a trip, or sometimes even get out of bed to do you a favor. They just want sex…maybe a date. A series of dates might even be too much to ask from the average guy who always fast-forwards to sex without emotional engagement.

But as he gets to know you and love you, he will start to see the value in providing for you. It makes him happy.

9. He always keeps his promises.​

This is truly an expression of love to live up to your promises and to never promise something you can’t commit to doing. Even among friends you trust, it’s not every day you meet someone that lives up to every promise. In a relationship, it means everything.

10. The way he touches you (or doesn’t touch you) changes.​

Finally, consider that when a man starts developing intense feelings for you, he does not think so little of touch. He will either shy away from touching you too intimately (because it’s actually what he wants) or he will touch you with MORE emotion, letting you know he wants to advance in the relationship. He wants you to know he feels safe.

As we can see, when a man falls for you he really can’t control himself – at least when it comes to the little things. He reveals his true feelings in the details. Sometimes it takes everything he has to control himself and carefully choose his words.

But if you notice what he’s feeling, and showing in body language, you might be surprised to find out his emotions are coming out furiously.

That’s a good sign because when a man falls for a woman, he’s the one who will want to advance in the relationship. Men are happier when they lead. Learn to notice the signs and then tell him what he wants to hear, to continue growing in your love for each other.

Text him this to trigger his desire to chase you…​

Did you know that you can trigger a man’s hormones through your text messages?

It’s true. How you communicate with a man can actually release different hormones in his body.

One of the most important ones is testosterone because that’s what makes him CHASE you, pursue you, and invest in you so that he gets “hooked” and desires something more with you.

I pray for you in the name of Jesus Christ amen 🙏.
 

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