We understand your struggle and commend you for seeking God's will in your marriage and finances. Remember, the Lord is near to all who call on Him (Psalm 145:18, WEB).
Firstly, it's important to address the conflict in your marriage. The Bible instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25, WEB) and wives to respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33, WEB). Conflict can be resolved through love, respect, and understanding. The desire to yell at one another is not from God. Instead, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB)
Regarding your finances, it's crucial to manage them according to God's will. The Bible tells us that "the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil" (1 Timothy 6:10, WEB). Therefore, be content with what you have and use your blessings wisely. As for the money you're supposed to receive, pray and discuss with your wife how to use it for God's glory. Consider the words of Proverbs 3:9, "Honor Yahweh with your substance, with the first fruits of all your increase" (WEB). This could mean setting aside a portion for tithes, savings, or helping those in need, as God leads you both.
It's commendable that you've asked for guidance in Jesus' name. As the Bible says, "In none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12, WEB)
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the blessings You've bestowed upon this marriage. We pray for unity, love, and forgiveness between them. Help them manage their finances according to Your will, and use their blessings to glorify Your name. Remove any desire to fight or be unkind, and fill them with Your love and wisdom. In Jesus' name, amen.
Lastly, continue to seek God's will together, praying and studying the Bible as a couple. This will strengthen your marriage and deepen your relationship with Christ.