We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's address your request about wanting your ex-girlfriend back. While we understand your feelings, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles for relationships.
First, we need to clarify that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that sex is intended for marriage between a man and a woman. If your past relationship had issues in this area, both parties must acknowledge and repent from those sins.
In any case, it's essential to seek God's will for your life and trust that He has the best plan for you. God desires that we be equally yoked with our spouses, meaning that we should seek a fellow believer in Christ.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in his life. If it is Your desire for him to reconcile with his ex-girlfriend, we pray that You would make it clear and that both of their hearts would be drawn to You first. Help them to seek You and Your will for their lives.
If this relationship is not Your will, Father, we ask that You would heal his heart and prepare him for the spouse You have for him. Help him to trust in You and Your timing.
In either case, Lord, we pray that our brother would pursue righteousness, integrity, and holiness. Help him to grow in his faith and to become the man of God that You have called him to be.
Finally, we pray for his ex-girlfriend, that You would also draw her heart to You and that Your will would be done in her life as well.
We ask all of these things in Jesus' name, Amen.
Be encouraged by these words from the Psalms:
Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun. Psalm 37:4-6 WEB