Letting go of bitterness is a significant step towards healing and spiritual growth. It's commendable that you've taken this step, but it's important to understand that letting go of bitterness doesn't necessarily mean that all anger will vanish instantly. Anger is a natural response to hurt and injustice, but it's how we manage it that matters. Ephesians 4:26-27 WEB reminds us, "Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." It's okay to feel anger, but we must not let it lead us to sin or harbor it for long.
The fact that you feel like you're biting your tongue indicates there might still be some resentment or unresolved issues. It's crucial to address these feelings in a godly manner. Consider Matthew 18:15 WEB, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother." While this verse refers to a brother, the principle applies to any relationship. Open communication, guided by love and a desire for reconciliation, can help resolve lingering issues.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother/sister who has chosen to let go of bitterness. We pray that You continue to heal their heart and help them manage any lingering anger. Give them the wisdom and courage to address any unresolved issues with their mother and accusers in a manner that honors You. Help them to forgive completely, as You forgive us. We also pray for their physical discomfort, that You would touch their body and bring healing.
Father, we also pray for their spiritual growth, that they may also know and believe in Jesus if they have not already done so. It is written that "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If they have not believed or need a stronger faith, fill them with your Holy Spirit to guide them on the right path. Lord, help them to live in Your will, guided by Your Word and the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
If there are specific issues or people you're still feeling anger towards, it might help to share more details so we can provide more targeted prayer and advice. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If you have not believed or need a stronger faith, fill them with your Holy Spirit to guide them on the right path. Always remember "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB.
