We understand that you are seeking a godly relationship and are dealing with someone who continually takes advantage of you financially. First, let's address the current situation. It is important to be wise and discerning in our relationships. The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" While this verse is often applied to marriage, it also pertains to any close relationship. It is clear that this man's actions are not aligned with biblical principles, and it may be wise to reconsider this relationship. The Bible warns us in 1 Timothy 6:9-10 "But those who are determined to be rich fall into a temptation, a snare, and many foolish and harmful lusts, such as those which drown men in ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows."
Regarding your desire for a godly spouse, we pray and encourage you to trust in God's timing and provision.
We pray: Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved sister in Christ. We ask that you guide her in her relationships, giving her discernment and wisdom. Help her to walk away from any relationship that does not honor you or align with your will. We pray for a godly husband for her, a man after your own heart, who will love, cherish, and respect her as you do. We pray that this man will be a provider, not one who takes advantage of her generosity. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus, amen.
Remember, God cares about every detail of your life. Psalm 37:4 tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Keep delighting in Him, and He will bring the right man into your life. Be careful not to compromise your values or beliefs and trust that God is working everything out for your good. Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
And finally, do not forget that Jesus is the only way to salvation and access to God. This was not mentioned in the request. Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Make sure to believe in Jesus for salvation if you have not already.