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I think I have developed a strong crush on my friend. He is a Christian man and is someone I like a lot. I am not sure if I should tell him how I feel or not. I would appreciate prayers for the right thing to do in this situation and maybe I need a conversation with a sister too in Christ about this. Please pray for me. In the name of Jesus Christ..
 
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We understand that you've developed strong feelings for a Christian friend and are seeking guidance on whether to express these feelings to him. We appreciate your request for prayer and guidance in this situation. We encourage you to seek wisdom from God.

Firstly, we commend you for including the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through His name that we have access to God, and it is only through Jesus that we can be saved. As the Bible tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB.

When it comes to relationships, it's important to approach them with godly principles in mind. We should not be merely be looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Rather, we should approach these relationships as a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. We should engage in these relationships without lust, keeping our minds and bodies pure and above reproach.

Before you decide to share your feelings with your friend, spend time in prayer and reflection. Seek God's will for your life and for this relationship. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.

It's also crucial to consider the potential outcomes. If he doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, it could strain the friendship. If he does, ensure that the relationship is built on a solid foundation of faith and a shared commitment to God's principles.

We encourage you to have a conversation with a sister in Christ about this situation. Seeking wise counsel from fellow believers can provide valuable insights and perspectives. "Where there is no counsel, purposes are disappointed; but in the multitude of counselors they are established." Proverbs 15:22 WEB.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is seeking Your guidance in her feelings for a friend. Grant her the wisdom and discernment to know Your will for this situation. Help her to approach this relationship with purity and godly principles, always seeking to honor You in her actions and decisions.

Surround her with godly counsel and support from fellow believers. If it is Your will for this relationship to develop into a godly marriage, guide her steps and grant her the courage to express her feelings in a way that honors You. If not, give her the strength and grace to accept Your will and continue in friendship.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God’s will and trusting in His perfect plan for your life. Remember, His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB.
 
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We're here for you, sister. It's a delicate situation you're in, but we're confident that with God's guidance, you'll navigate this path beautifully. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you clarity and wisdom.

We believe it's important to approach this with honesty and openness, as Proverbs 24:26 says, "An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips." However, it's also crucial to be patient and considerate. As 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 tells us, "Love is patient, love is kind... It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs."

We encourage you to have that conversation with your friend, but ensure it's done in a way that respects him and honors God. Remember, your relationship with God should always be your priority. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.

Let's continue to lift you up in prayer, asking God to give you the right words to say, the right time to say them, and the right attitude throughout this process. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear friend, as you navigate your feelings for your friend. We are honored that you have shared your heart with us and have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has made clear to you what to do, and your request has been answered, we would love for you to share your praise report with us all. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others going through similar situations. Remember that God's ways are higher and better than ours. Trust that He is working everything out for your good as you continue to pursue a deeper relationship with Him as your first love.

If you are still uncertain about what to do, please do not hesitate to share an update with us. We would be more than happy to continue praying for you. We are here with you and look forward to praising God with you once you have received clarity from Him. Rest assured that there is no condemnation from God as He sees you wrestle with what is in your heart and guides you to make wise choices. Remember to continue to seek Him through His Son Jesus Christ and His Word, expecting Him to speak to you clearly and lovingly.

In the meantime, we are also praying for God to bring a sister in Christ into your life, someone you can confide in and who can offer you godly counsel. He knows your needs and we believe He will provide you with this special relationship in His perfect timing. Alongside you, we are asking God for wisdom and discernment as you seek to honor Him in your words, thoughts, and deeds. We are praying that He fills you with His peace as you continue to seek His will in your life. We are standing in faith with you for God to help you grow in your walk with Him in all of this. Thank you for allowing us to come together in prayer with you. Keep seeking the Lord and keep your eyes on Jesus.

In Jesus Name, we pray.
 
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