Anonymous

Beloved of All
I have been dealing with insecurity and am currently feeling it in my relationship. I know my boyfriend loves me but due to past experience I have the fear that he will leave me or that I am not enough for him. I’ve often prayed and asked God for reassurance that this is the person he has brought me to be with but sometimes my insecurity eats me away. I believe because I have been able to be vulnerable with someone again I have the fear that I am not enough or get in my head and I want it to stop.
 
We understand your struggle with insecurity in your relationship, and we want to remind you that God's perfect love casts out fear. First, let's address the nature of your relationship. You mention having a boyfriend, but we encourage you to consider the biblical perspective of relationships. The goal should be a lifelong commitment in marriage as outlined in the Bible. Courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian Believer is the ideal situation to glorify God. God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, so we pray that your relationship aligns with this divine plan.

In regards to Jesus Christ and believing in him as the son of God it is very important as it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that one can approach the throne of God grace and mercy and receive the free gift of salvation. Jesus is the way the truth and the life in this life, I pray that you continue to do that and know the power of His name. Keep trusting God with these insecurities. As for any address of concerns we are doing so right here. In Christ, there is nothing outside of His hand and this situation is held in the palms of his hand at this very moment. He loves you even more than a mother loves her dear children. So give all your anxieties and insecurities to Him, because he cares for you. In I Peter 5:7 it says "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you".

First, let's pray: Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name and lift up Anonymous in prayer. Father, you know the fears and insecurities that they are feeling in their relationship. We pray that You will replace fear with faith and fill with Your love to cast out fear. Helps them in the insecurity in which they have, that you love them the most. Grant them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this relationship, and if it is your will that it may reflect your intentions in the sanctity of a marriage to bring glory to you. Wrap your child in the knowledge that Christ died for her and gave her His incomparable love. He has taken you and shown your great worth and this stands above any anxiety or fear in your position. For they are loved, sought out, died for, forgiven, beautiful, adopted into the family of God in the family of Christ, that we cry out "Abba, Father."For we know our great worth as in baptism as dying with Christ, raised from the dead to walk in the newness of life with Him, raised in spirit with Him who is at the right hand of the father, so our identity stands in Jesus, the eternal Word of the Father, before whom we have our worthy standing, living in Him in Christ today. I would pray for that faith also in you right now, the Father wishes to put his faith in your heart according to Ephesians 3:16-17 "that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, that you may be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inward man; so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love". May your trusts in His infinite love, unlimited infinite power and God's character give Anonymous and rest and assurance that would take all anxieties away in this Christ Jesus who alone can provide peace, providing rest from those fears. And Lord of the weak and broken hearted and people in doubt give her rest, may these words that surpass all understanding rest on that heart of insecurity, weakness and breaking, grant that heart the gift of encouragement. Trust in Him. Thank God for her struggles, but thanks for which God's power will rest on through her trials as the faith given is work through those trails overcoming. Thank God that His resurrected power rests on us and this breaking to make us a stronger, powerful child of God. God does not call the equipped, he equips the called. Lift her strength, meaning and worth in this situation to you heavenly father with Christ. In Jesus' name we pray.

From the scriptures we are told that, Perfect love, God's love, casts out fear 1 John 4:18:
There is no fear in love, in Christ Jesus we have this; but perfect love, in Christ, Jesus casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love. It is also written that "The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in the Lord is kept safe" from Proverbs 29:25.

It is important to know that in the world we will have trouble, but in Christ we can take heart for He has overcome the world.

Let us not forget the promises of God: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope". They are promises for us written in Jeremiah 29:11. And we do not know what the future holds, but we know who holds the future. There is purpose behind the struggles today but God's banner over her life is love today because of Jesus death to sin on her behalf. In being a co heir to salvation in Jesus, he is praying for every temptation even this one that is suffered now but hope be a guiding light leading up that hill in obedience leading to light and righteousness
Remember Philippians 4:6-7: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.". See that He is sovereign over your whole life, this whole world, even in your relationship and this situation is under his sovereign care.
 
We understand your struggle with insecurity in your relationship, and we want to remind you that God sees you and loves you just as you are. Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made in His image (Psalm 139:14). It's okay to feel insecure at times, but it's important to trust in God's love for you.

We're here to support you, just as God is. He promises to never leave or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Trust in Him, and let Him fill you with His perfect love that casts out fear (1 John 4:18).

Let's pray: Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name. We lift up our sister in prayer. Father, you know the fears and insecurities she's feeling in her relationship. Help her to trust in your love and fill her with your peace. Remind her that she is your beloved child, and that she is more than enough in your eyes. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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We are truly grateful that you shared your struggle with insecurity and asked us to join you in prayer. It is our privilege to stand with you in agreement before the Lord.

If you have experienced reassurance and peace in your relationship, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice with you. If, however, you are still feeling overwhelmed by insecurity, we want you to know that we are here for you. Please share an update, and we will continue to pray and believe with you for God's peace and reassurance.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him and trust in His love for you. We are praying that you will find confidence and security in Christ, and that your relationship will be a reflection of His love. We are asking God to help you overcome your fears and insecurities, and that you will know and experience His perfect love that drives out all fear.

We are praying for you in Jesus Name. May you know all of his blessings for you. Amen.
 

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