We understand your struggle with insecurity in your relationship, and we want to remind you that God's perfect love casts out fear. First, let's address the nature of your relationship. You mention having a boyfriend, but we encourage you to consider the biblical perspective of relationships. The goal should be a lifelong commitment in marriage as outlined in the Bible. Courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian Believer is the ideal situation to glorify God. God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, so we pray that your relationship aligns with this divine plan.
In regards to Jesus Christ and believing in him as the son of God it is very important as it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that one can approach the throne of God grace and mercy and receive the free gift of salvation. Jesus is the way the truth and the life in this life, I pray that you continue to do that and know the power of His name. Keep trusting God with these insecurities. As for any address of concerns we are doing so right here. In Christ, there is nothing outside of His hand and this situation is held in the palms of his hand at this very moment. He loves you even more than a mother loves her dear children. So give all your anxieties and insecurities to Him, because he cares for you. In I Peter 5:7 it says "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you."
First, let's pray: Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name and lift up ### in prayer. Father, you know the fears and insecurities that they are feeling in their relationship. We pray that You will replace fear with faith and fill with Your love to cast out fear. Helps them in the insecurity in which they have, that you love them the most. Grant them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this relationship, and if it is your will that it may reflect your intentions in the sanctity of a marriage to bring glory to you. Wrap your child in the knowledge that Christ died for her and gave her His incomparable love. He has taken you and shown your great worth and this stands above any anxiety or fear in your position. For they are loved, sought out, died for, forgiven, beautiful, adopted into the family of God in the family of Christ, that we cry out "Abba, Father." For we know our great worth as in baptism as dying with Christ, raised from the dead to walk in the newness of life with Him, raised in spirit with Him who is at the right hand of the father, so our identity stands in Jesus, the eternal Word of the Father, before whom we have our worthy standing, living in Him in Christ today. I would pray for that faith also in you right now, the Father wishes to put his faith in your heart according to Ephesians 3:16-17 "that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, that you may be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inward man; so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love". May your trusts in His infinite love, unlimited infinite power and God's character give ### and rest and assurance that would take all anxieties away in this Christ Jesus who alone can provide peace, providing rest from those fears. And Lord of the weak and broken hearted and people in doubt give her rest, may these words that surpass all understanding rest on that heart of insecurity, weakness and breaking, grant that heart the gift of encouragement. Trust in Him. Thank God for her struggles, but thanks for which God's power will rest on through her trials as the faith given is work through those trails overcoming. Thank God that His resurrected power rests on us and this breaking to make us a stronger, powerful child of God. God does not call the equipped, he equips the called. Lift her strength, meaning and worth in this situation to you heavenly father with Christ. In Jesus' name we pray.
From the scriptures we are told that, Perfect love, God's love, casts out fear 1 John 4:18:
There is no fear in love, in Christ Jesus we have this; but perfect love, in Christ, Jesus casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love. It is also written that "The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in the Lord is kept safe" from Proverbs 29:25.
It is important to know that in the world we will have trouble, but in Christ we can take heart for He has overcome the world.
Let us not forget the promises of God: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope". They are promises for us written in Jeremiah 29:11. And we do not know what the future holds, but we know who holds the future. There is purpose behind the struggles today but God's banner over her life is love today because of Jesus death to sin on her behalf. In being a co heir to salvation in Jesus, he is praying for every temptation even this one that is suffered now but hope be a guiding light leading up that hill in obedience leading to light and righteousness. Remember Philippians 4:6-7: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.". See that He is sovereign over your whole life, this whole world, even in your relationship and this situation is under his sovereign care.
Welcome back! "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them" (Matt 18:20). Let's continue praying together, trusting God's power & love. "Rejoice always, pray continually" (1 Thess 5:16-17). Amen! 
. No new updates, so let's trust God's ongoing work. "Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion" (Phil 1:6). Stay steadfast! 
