Gajollyn
Disciple of Prayer
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. It sounds like an incredibly difficult situation. Here's a redacted version of your message, focusing on privacy:
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I have a stalker who won't leave me alone. He's been calling me for four years. I have a child for him, but he left me a month after my daughter was born and married someone else a month after he left me. I left him alone and took legal action to ensure he financially provided for my daughter and filed for custody. Since 2021, he's been making spam calls and texts and has harassed my family with calls. I found out he has a heavy criminal record after doing a background check and contacted the mother-in-law with witnesses. After explaining what was going on, she said he's done this before. I filed a restraining order, had hearings, a trial with witnesses, and he didn't appear. My attorney and I had a court date last month thinking this was it to proceed with the trial. He finally approved because he was threatened that he would be detained immediately if he didn't appear. He requested an attorney, and the referee issued one to him; mind you, we live in different states. His wife knows what's going on, and still, he continues to harass. I have a hearing next year in January, and the judge made it clear for him and a third party not to contact me. He's still violating the order after violating it the first time. However, he's using numbers to throw the system off because, to my knowledge, he knows he's going to get away with it. My phone has been blowing up; he keeps tabs on me through public records, and when he can't find me, he harasses my family. I prayed and prayed and have changed my number six times and other things I won't list here. He was in the church, and my God, if he should have run now, I want nothing to do with him; he's been harassing me. I have children, and I can't afford an app to block anything right now. I asked my attorney if she could summon his phone carrier for records to provide to the court. She said yes, but I have issues to worry about. Also, he's into witchcraft; I found this out after the breakup when a friend of mine looked him up on public records and spoke to his family. He also has a thing for children; I wasn't supposed to find this out, but I found out in 2021 on social media that he was married because his concubine and I followed his pastor on Facebook. I need prayer to find an apartment, stability financially to provide for my young child and teenagers, and this man won't leave me alone. He's trying to drive me crazy. I asked God to forgive me for not listening, but he continues to bother me. If he gets away this next year in January, he will not stop. I heard he's mentally ill and a sociopath, but I had no idea because he didn't show any signs. However, he was very controlling, and when I put my foot down, he would want to break up. He even engaged to marry me when all along he was with someone else. I dodge a demon, but he won't leave me alone. I'm under spiritual warfare because my mother is the same way and she too is into witchcraft in the church; my father has an attraction to me; these are my biological parents. He wrote me a love letter, and my mother knew and ignored it, and she pretended to be saved but a demon in the home; my parents are Jezebel and Ahab. My mother smeared my name because I confronted her about the things she was doing, and I rebuked her and told her about the word of God to correct her. Her eye grew dark as she laughed at me and mocked me; I can see the demon in her eyes. So I stopped talking to her, trying to figure out how to move out. She would call me a b. A hoe, provoke me in front of my kids, and I say nothing because of them. She didn't care; she would use chemicals to deliberately trigger my kids' symptoms. She told my family members I seduced my father; she called ACS on me because I moved out, and it backfired because the kids told THEM EVERYTHING she did to me because they felt safe and knew we were not going back to her. She used to stalk and harass me, and my father sat there and said nothing. She's a minister and chaplain; please note a Pentecostal woman. My father is a pastor; both are mentally ill. So I left and thought I have peace, and now my daughter's donor is bothering me. I go to church, and I have no support; the government is worse, and I need help. I don't have anyone praying for me. I didn't want to put my business out there, but my mother is projecting everything she did to me and telling people I did this to her, which isn't true. People are believing her; this has been going on for years; she loves to be worshipped, and when I don't bow, I lose resources; everything makes sense why I meet people like her that take advantage of me. But no more. I'm begging for you all to pray for me because I have been drinking but not consistently; I'm stressed out, and by me crying out, I don't think God hears me. I need intercessors and people praying; I'm not out here doing things against God's will. I'm going through this alone, and I have friends who have my back but are not saved, and some that want to do witchcraft on him, and I had to stop my friend because he has a calling on his life. My children are going through this. He's left a state just to travel in my state to stalk me. I'm on the verge of turning my phone off. Please, I need help. My court date is January 28 next for both the petition of violation (he violated the order) and custody. He needs to be locked up, and having this work in my favor that I get custody and have my order finalized. It seems to me my order still stands, but he's still violating it by spamming me. Please help.
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I hope you find the support and resolution you need. Consider reaching out to local support groups or legal aid services that might be able to assist you further.
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I have a stalker who won't leave me alone. He's been calling me for four years. I have a child for him, but he left me a month after my daughter was born and married someone else a month after he left me. I left him alone and took legal action to ensure he financially provided for my daughter and filed for custody. Since 2021, he's been making spam calls and texts and has harassed my family with calls. I found out he has a heavy criminal record after doing a background check and contacted the mother-in-law with witnesses. After explaining what was going on, she said he's done this before. I filed a restraining order, had hearings, a trial with witnesses, and he didn't appear. My attorney and I had a court date last month thinking this was it to proceed with the trial. He finally approved because he was threatened that he would be detained immediately if he didn't appear. He requested an attorney, and the referee issued one to him; mind you, we live in different states. His wife knows what's going on, and still, he continues to harass. I have a hearing next year in January, and the judge made it clear for him and a third party not to contact me. He's still violating the order after violating it the first time. However, he's using numbers to throw the system off because, to my knowledge, he knows he's going to get away with it. My phone has been blowing up; he keeps tabs on me through public records, and when he can't find me, he harasses my family. I prayed and prayed and have changed my number six times and other things I won't list here. He was in the church, and my God, if he should have run now, I want nothing to do with him; he's been harassing me. I have children, and I can't afford an app to block anything right now. I asked my attorney if she could summon his phone carrier for records to provide to the court. She said yes, but I have issues to worry about. Also, he's into witchcraft; I found this out after the breakup when a friend of mine looked him up on public records and spoke to his family. He also has a thing for children; I wasn't supposed to find this out, but I found out in 2021 on social media that he was married because his concubine and I followed his pastor on Facebook. I need prayer to find an apartment, stability financially to provide for my young child and teenagers, and this man won't leave me alone. He's trying to drive me crazy. I asked God to forgive me for not listening, but he continues to bother me. If he gets away this next year in January, he will not stop. I heard he's mentally ill and a sociopath, but I had no idea because he didn't show any signs. However, he was very controlling, and when I put my foot down, he would want to break up. He even engaged to marry me when all along he was with someone else. I dodge a demon, but he won't leave me alone. I'm under spiritual warfare because my mother is the same way and she too is into witchcraft in the church; my father has an attraction to me; these are my biological parents. He wrote me a love letter, and my mother knew and ignored it, and she pretended to be saved but a demon in the home; my parents are Jezebel and Ahab. My mother smeared my name because I confronted her about the things she was doing, and I rebuked her and told her about the word of God to correct her. Her eye grew dark as she laughed at me and mocked me; I can see the demon in her eyes. So I stopped talking to her, trying to figure out how to move out. She would call me a b. A hoe, provoke me in front of my kids, and I say nothing because of them. She didn't care; she would use chemicals to deliberately trigger my kids' symptoms. She told my family members I seduced my father; she called ACS on me because I moved out, and it backfired because the kids told THEM EVERYTHING she did to me because they felt safe and knew we were not going back to her. She used to stalk and harass me, and my father sat there and said nothing. She's a minister and chaplain; please note a Pentecostal woman. My father is a pastor; both are mentally ill. So I left and thought I have peace, and now my daughter's donor is bothering me. I go to church, and I have no support; the government is worse, and I need help. I don't have anyone praying for me. I didn't want to put my business out there, but my mother is projecting everything she did to me and telling people I did this to her, which isn't true. People are believing her; this has been going on for years; she loves to be worshipped, and when I don't bow, I lose resources; everything makes sense why I meet people like her that take advantage of me. But no more. I'm begging for you all to pray for me because I have been drinking but not consistently; I'm stressed out, and by me crying out, I don't think God hears me. I need intercessors and people praying; I'm not out here doing things against God's will. I'm going through this alone, and I have friends who have my back but are not saved, and some that want to do witchcraft on him, and I had to stop my friend because he has a calling on his life. My children are going through this. He's left a state just to travel in my state to stalk me. I'm on the verge of turning my phone off. Please, I need help. My court date is January 28 next for both the petition of violation (he violated the order) and custody. He needs to be locked up, and having this work in my favor that I get custody and have my order finalized. It seems to me my order still stands, but he's still violating it by spamming me. Please help.
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I hope you find the support and resolution you need. Consider reaching out to local support groups or legal aid services that might be able to assist you further.