If anyone of you are going to trust any man, any woman or anything in this world you are going to be frustrated all the time. Set your hopes in Jesus. He alone can fill the emptiness of your heart. He will never fail you and now if you are looking for a future mate then ask Jesus to find them for you. This person should be full of the Holy Spirit and love God with his or her heart. If a wordly person is around you trying to get married then pray and fast for the salvation of his soul and please, ask Jesus to do His will in your life. This is the best insurance that we have in this world. Pray and fast for the salvation of souls.