I wish my mom would see me ...

Anonymous · Jun 7, 2023

I wish my mom would see me for me and not as her past traumas. She sees me as a whore because I was raped and she blamed me for it but she was also raped in her younger years and hasn't been to therapy for it or for the other types of abuse she endured, and because of this she mistreats me, or paints me as a whore, a liar, a manipulator and a lot of things when in reality I just want my mom to love me like a mom should. She also defends abusive men and villanizes their female victims. She has a lot of issues and I think she projects them to other women by treating them maybe how she feels about herself... I'm not sure but that is what my therapist said it could be. My mom is afraid of therapy and says that me advising her to go to therapy is me trying to convince her that she is crazy and that I am evil. I just want her to be ok with herself because if she is and she heals, she will be ok with me and won't be supporting abusive men or welcoming them into my life (like some family members), letting them abuse me in different ways and blaming me for it..they love it when she blames me for what they do or when she blames other girls for what those men do to them. She paints those guys as good people and the victims as villains. When I try to talk to her about it she hurts me more, and she always chooses the men, especially if they give her money, travels, a ride to somewhere, etc. I have been needing to let this out for some time now. Please pray for my mother's healing (for my healing too since I have been through a lot even thou I am thinking more about my mom and her wellbeing), for her to have wisdom and discernment when dealing with bad men and to look for godly men, godly people to befriend, and for her to come back to Christ.

Haversyva · Jun 7, 2023

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Emmanuelle · Jun 7, 2023

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Articles · Jun 7, 2023

Heavenly Father, we come to You in Jesus' Name asking for Your help and healing for Anonymous and their mother. Lord, we know that You are the God of restoration and healing, and we ask that You would bring healing to the traumas of the past that have been inflicted upon Anonymous' mother. We pray that You would help her to see Anonymous for who they are and not through the lens of her past traumas. Help her to recognize the lies of the enemy and to see the truth of who Anonymous is. Lord, we pray that You would bring healing to their relationship and that You would give them both the grace and strength to love and forgive one another. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Saraha · Jun 7, 2023

Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen

I trust you Jesus

bobr69 · Jun 7, 2023

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Anonymous · Jun 7, 2023

Anonymous said:
I wish my mom would see me for me and not as her past traumas. She sees me as a whore because I was raped and she blamed me for it but she was also raped in her younger years and hasn't been to therapy for it or for the other types of abuse she endured, and because of this she mistreats me, or paints me as a whore, a liar, a manipulator and a lot of things when in reality I just want my mom to love me like a mom should. She also defends abusive men and villanizes their female victims. She has a lot of issues and I think she projects them to other women by treating them maybe how she feels about herself... I'm not sure but that is what my therapist said it could be. My mom is afraid of therapy and says that me advising her to go to therapy is me trying to convince her that she is crazy and that I am evil. I just want her to be ok with herself because if she is and she heals, she will be ok with me and won't be supporting abusive men or welcoming them into my life (like some family members), letting them abuse me in different ways and blaming me for it..they love it when she blames me for what they do or when she blames other girls for what those men do to them. She paints those guys as good people and the victims as villains. When I try to talk to her about it she hurts me more, and she always chooses the men, especially if they give her money, travels, a ride to somewhere, etc. I have been needing to let this out for some time now. Please pray for my mother's healing (for my healing too since I have been through a lot even thou I am thinking more about my mom and her wellbeing), for her to have wisdom and discernment when dealing with bad men and to look for godly men, godly people to befriend, and for her to come back to Christ.

Dear Lord, please help Anonymous and her mom heal. Trauma is a tough thing, and the extent to which they both suffered. Please turn these traumas into testimonies to where both Anonymous and her mother will heal and help others who have been through similar circumstances. I pray their mother-daughter relationship will be restored fully, and they will cheer for and uplift each other in life. I pray Anonymous’s mom will be saved and find hope and security in the Lord Jesus Christ. Lord keep both of them safe from toxic situations and give them discernment. Show them what real love is, and to know everything good comes from you. Help them remember Romans 8:28 “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose.” In Jesus’s name, Amen.

ellie12 · Jun 7, 2023

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Jun 7, 2023

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Pray Focus: God, I ask You in Jesus' name bless all those I love and care about (including myself) to accept Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord of All in each of our lives. God bless all of us to come to know You, love You, and live our lives to honor and please You. Bless us with love, power, and a sound mind. Heal each of us Lord Jesus in all areas of our lives. Bless us to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace, knowledge, and wisdom of Christ Jesus. God help and strengthen each of us to live our lives according to the purpose You created each of us for. Let each of us be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle we each live. God, please bless us with Your favor, joy, peace, strength, protection, prosperity, and success in all You have called each of us to do. And let us do it in the spirit of excellence for the glory of God. Protect us Lord Jesus from all the plans of the enemy of our soul. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer and all those who truly love me and want Your best for me. God Thank You. Thank You, Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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