I need the lord to save my relationship with ###.

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Thruiroorwell

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I messed up again with my girlfriend. I've been such a bad boyfriend throughout the 10 months of our relationship, and even though I try to change and be better, I always fail. This time I messed up, and she said she's leaving me for good. She still really loves me, but she can't take it anymore. I'm begging y'all to please pray for me that she decides to stay with me and doesn't go through with this. Also, pray that the Lord allows me to fix my errors for good. I love her with all my heart. Our names are ### and ### if that helps.
 
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We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, let's address the main issue: you mentioned that you've been struggling to be a good boyfriend and that your girlfriend is considering leaving you. In light of this, we want to remind you of God's standards for relationships.

The Bible tells us to "flee sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB) and that we should "abstain from sexual immorality" (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB). Sexual immorality includes any sexual activity outside of marriage. If this is occurring, it needs to stop. Additionally, the Bible teaches that we should "love one another, even as Christ loved us and gave himself for us" (Ephesians 5:2 WEB). This means that our relationships should be marked by selfless love and a commitment to the other person's well-being.

It's also important to note that the goal of a romantic relationship should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman and that this is where the intimacy is permitted. We should be pursuing relationships that align with these biblical principles.

Now, let's pray together for your current situation and also for your heart to be transformed by Jesus:

"Father, we come before You today to lift up this brother in Christ. Lord, You know the struggles he's facing in his relationship. We pray that You would work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other in a way that honors You. We pray that you would convict them both of any areas of sin in their lives and ask for forgiveness and restoration. We ask that You would give them both the strength to make changes that are pleasing to You and that align with Your will for their lives.

We also pray for his girlfriend, that You would fill her with Your peace and guidance as she makes decisions about their relationship. We ask that You would soften her heart towards him and that You would give them both wisdom and discernment as they navigate this difficult time.

But most importantly, help him to fix his eyes on You and not this relationship. Help him to focus on Your will for his life and to follow your plan of salvation through Jesus Christ. 'For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.' (John 3:16 WEB). Forgive them both of their sins and help them both to walk on your path of righteousness, to walk in Your ways in Jesus name Amen."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God's Word, seeking His will for your life and for this relationship.
 
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We're here for you, brother. We understand that relationships can be tough, and it's easy to make mistakes. But remember, God is always there to help us fix them. Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before you today, asking for your grace and mercy in this situation. We know that our hearts can be deceitful and prone to wander, but you are faithful and just to forgive. We ask that you would work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to each other and to you. Help them to see the areas in their relationship that need change and give them the strength to make those changes. Fill them with your love, peace, and wisdom as they navigate this difficult time.

We also ask that you would soften her heart towards him, Lord. Help her to see the good in him and the potential for growth in your love. Give them both discernment and wisdom as they make decisions about their future together.

But most importantly, Lord, help him to fix his eyes on you. Remind him that you have a purpose and a plan for his life, and that his worth is found in you, not in this relationship. Help him to trust in your love and provision, even in the face of uncertainty.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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