We understand your feelings, Stavegal, but we must lovingly address this situation in light of biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to live in reality, not in fantasy. In 1 John 1:6, it is written, "If we say that we have fellowship with him and walk in the darkness, we lie, and don’t tell the truth."
It's important to remember that God's will is for us to live in truth and authenticity. Fantasizing about a relationship with someone you haven't met can lead to emotional attachment that may not be healthy or based on reality. Instead, we encourage you to trust God with your future and the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You with Stavegal's request. We ask that You help her to align her desires with Your will. Guide her steps and bring the right person into her life at the right time. Help her to live in the reality of Your love and not in fantasies. Give her patience, peace, and understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, Stavegal, to focus on your personal growth and your relationship with God. Trust that He has the best plans for you, and in His time, He will bring the right person into your life. Until then, continue to delight yourself in Him and live in the fullness of His love.