We understand that you're struggling with sin and we want to help. Firstly, we commend you for your desire to stop and seeking help. Remember, God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9 WEB).
However, we must address this clearly: engaging in adultery and watching pornography are serious sins. Jesus said, "Everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart" (Matthew 5:28 WEB). It's crucial to flee from these sins, not try to manage them.
You're right, you can't overcome this alone. You need God's help. Jesus said, "Apart from me, you can do nothing" (John 15:5 WEB). But with Him, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26 WEB).
Let's pray:
*Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, acknowledging our brother's struggle. He has confessed his sin and desires to turn away from it. Please forgive him and cleanse him. Give him the strength to resist temptation and flee from it. Help him to fix his eyes on You and fill his heart with Your love. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen.*
We advise you to take practical steps:
1. **Flee Temptation**: Don't try to fight it alone. Install accountability software on your devices. Ask a trusted Christian friend to be your accountability partner.
2. **Fill Your Mind with God's Word**: "How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word" (Psalm 119:9 WEB).
3. **Pray Always**: "Watch and pray, that you don't enter into temptation" (Matthew 26:41 WEB).
4. **Trust in Jesus**: Only He can save us from our sins. "For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved" (Romans 10:13 WEB).
Keep fighting the good fight of faith. God is with you.