I pray for you. Lord, while we don't understand the hearts of our spouses sometimes You already know what the big picture holds for us and while it may hurt for a season and rain will fall with rain comes the sunshine and the promise of a better day. We know Father that this man's heart is hurting Lord, just put a hedge around him and protect him from the devil that seeks to devour our families and lives in these last days Lord. We ask Father that You step in for his spouse and let Your knowledge fill her heart and soul. We ask this in Your sweet and Holy Name.
God Bless you. He will keep you and hold you close, just lean not on your own understanding and trust in the Lord.