We understand that you're going through a difficult time, missing someone you deeply care about, and it's clear you have been learning and growing through this experience. It's important that we pray and consider this situation through the lens of biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for ending your prayer "in Jesus' name." This is vital because, as the Bible tells us, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). It is only through Jesus that we can approach God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
However, let's consider what God's will might be in this situation. As you've learned lessons and grown, it's important to ensure that these align with biblical principles. Psalm 37:4 WEB tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
We should be focusing on our relationship with God. We should also be aware that God's plan for the believer's life far surpasses our own desires. God may have someone else in mind for you, or He may be calling you to a season of singleness to focus on growing in Him.
Moreover, it's crucial to remember that God desires us to be equally yoked with our spouses. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity?" Therefore, we pray that if it is God's will for you to be with this person, that she is also a believer, growing in her faith.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother in Christ who is experiencing heartache. We thank You for the lessons he has learned during this time and pray that these lessons will bear fruit in his life. We ask that Your will be done in his life, and that You guide him to the person You have chosen for him, if it is Your will for him to be married. Help him to focus on You, to grow in You, and to be molded into the likeness of Your Son, Jesus Christ.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Take heart, and remember God's promise in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB, "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.