We are glad to hear that you acknowledge Jesus' sacrifice for our sins.
First, let us address the issue of forgiveness. Just as Jesus forgives us, we are to forgive others. Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
You've mentioned that he had a rough childhood, but remember, difficult pasts do not justify sinful behavior. Everyone must take responsibility for their actions. 1 John 1:9 WEB states If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Regarding his healing and deliverance, we pray that he turns to Jesus, the Great Physician, who can heal both physical and spiritual ailments. It is only through the name of Jesus that we can find true salvation and freedom. Acts 4:12 WEB reminds us, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
Concerning his personality disorder, we pray for wisdom and guidance for those involved in his life and for medical professionals to find effective treatments. Remember, God can work through doctors and medicine to bring healing.
You've mentioned your fear and uncertainty due to his lies and manipulation. Psalm 55:22 WEB says, Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved. Trust in God to guide you and keep you safe.
Regarding his hypocrisy and taking his problems out on you, we pray that he repents and turns from his sinful behavior. Remember, Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44 WEB).
We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support as you navigate this difficult situation. Proverbs 11:14 WEB says, Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory.
Finally, we join you in praying for your daughter's change of heart, your son's safety and success, your son-in-law's maturity, and for your son to find a compatible wife.
Heavenly Father, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your guidance, healing, and deliverance. Help everyone involved to turn to Jesus, trusting in His power to save and transform lives. Give them all wisdom, discernment, and strength to act according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.